Its so weird I mean its Friday night and a part of me wants to go out and have a beer but then again I'm quitting smoking and if I have a beer now I'll want a cigerret, and its not only that, I am taking an antidepresent but have a couple of beers one nights not gonna drag me down I dont know what to do...sometimes I think I'm getting too old too soon I mean I am only 25 and it just seems like I like to stay home now more than the old days where I used to go clubbing and partying..and I just growing too old quickly or what? I mean I am in the house all week except for when I am school I dont know what to think...plz help!
2006-08-25 12:16:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you arent tied down by a family then you are free to do what you want. Just because you think that you should be doing something else doesnt mean it is what you wantto do. If it was then you would be doing it.
2006-08-25 12:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG i know how you feel!..when i quit smoking it was hard to have a drink & not have a smoke with it ..after a while that goes away...& as for getting old too fast i feel ya, i just turned 27 & i guess it was about 24 or 25 that things started changing,fun for me now isnt what it used to be, i would rather rent a movie and make pop corn than go out act stupid & wake up the next day feeling like ****!..or go bowling or play basket ball with my son ..any way your just growing up thats all it is!..its wierd huh you think once you turn 21 your grown but you really keep growing up even in your later 20's...i am sure things will get better for us both...lol...i feel better now than i did a couple of years ago ..i got prety depressed about it for a while, thinking soemthing was wrong with me because the people i know are still acting like kids even in their early 30's..but really like i said your just still growing up but there is nothing wrong with that as much as we want to be toys r us kids forever we just can't!
2006-08-25 12:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by CRYSTAL S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be independent and strong willed. But you also need to go out. Look to yourself. The 40 year old is right though-25 is still a baby. I am 27, and remember the days when I was 24(not long ago at all).
A lot of changes will happen in the next couple of years of your life. Get outside. Dont drink, but get!
2006-08-25 12:30:24 · answer #3 · answered by James S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need God in your life. And you better hurry up. Sounds like your on your way to becoming an Alcoholic. You stress to much about things you have no control over. Your gonna get older that's a given. If you continue to smoke and party to "stay young" you'll get older that much faster. Maybe you should start loving yourself and work on your self esteem. Partying is not all there is for young people to do. Really, take up dancing, singing, ride a bike, do anything but don't go down that road of addiction.
2006-08-25 12:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by corina381 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have a serious self control problem. It's better to control, like have 2 cigarettes, then lose control and smoke a whole pack. You're on anti's for a reason, you shouldn't drink. The funny thing about drugs is that they don't solve anything, even though they can temporarily help you. Face the problems in your life, and take control. Have fun! Go dancing! you can do it!
2006-08-25 12:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by punkdrunkard 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you're depressed, alcohol, even a couple of beers, is a bad idea. Find another activity besides bar-hopping.
Maybe take a dance class and meet some interesting members of the opposite sex.
2006-08-25 12:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by Dave 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have a beer and not the cig..go by rice cakes or treat yourself to some chex mix to balance it out.Have a small get together at your place invite over friends but tell them to leave the cigs at home.
Bring movies and saltie stuff it helps
I have been there to.....
You can do it
Clubbing gets old but you are still very young,there are so many things out there you can do just explore.
Museums, and independant films,maybe a westling match,going to the gym,etc. ( cig substitute).try it you might like,it will keep you young and knowledgable
Good luck....
2006-08-25 12:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to start by going to places where people don't smoke or drink. There are some places; the movies, library and so on. Also, only go out with people that don't smoke or drink.
2006-08-25 12:22:48 · answer #8 · answered by kasar777 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, my God!!! Go out!!! You are still young. I am gonna be 40 next year and wish I was 25 and still having fun sometimes. Believe me you have plenty of time to settle down. Ah, to be 25 again.
2006-08-25 12:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by crct2004 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are becoming a loser recluse.
Don't keep to yourself - get out there and:
1. Meet a chick
2. Bang her
3. Leave her
4. Move on to the next chick
5. Repeat steps 1 - 4
2006-08-25 12:19:16 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋