Girls take one look at me and thats it. So i take it im not very good looking.Girls have told me in the past that im just the kind of guy girls are just going to want to be friends with.What can i do ? All i want in life is love! Im 18 bye the way.-------->if you have a rude comment then dont bother its not going to get to me ive seen and hierd it all.
2006-08-25 12:12:18 · 9 answers · asked by Jamie L 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
If people are judging you by your outer appearance, then they are in the wrong.
Everyone should know it's the real person on the inside that counts. Who really wants to be with a good looking jerk? Don't worry, you're young yet. The right girl will come along!
2006-08-25 12:34:18 · answer #1 · answered by Starscape 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not doing anything wrong unless you walk around scowling or grumbling or otherwise being rude. If you are friendly and polite, then just wait. The right girl will come along. It may not be right away, but a gal who finds handsome the things that make you unique, and treats you well, who you can relax and laugh be yourself with...will be worth the wait. Don't waste your time on anyone who wants you to change so they will date you. The real you has a perfect match out there! (and there's no such thing as a late bloomer...while you are waiting, learn from the the relationships around you...you'll save yourself heartache later.) Good Luck!
2006-08-27 01:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by augerbeach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is all anyone wants is to be loved. I know when you concentrate so much on this it will become worse. Try and focus on your career or something else that interests you. When you are not always thinking of dating and being loved you will find a girl. There maybe a girl now around you that likes you and maybe you dont notice. I dont know you but if you are the kind of the guy looking for a model or what is on the outside and not on the inside then this can add to your frustration. Please whatever girl told you that you are the kind of guy girls only want to be friends with does not know what she is talking about. There is someone out there for everyone. Dont give up but please dont focus on this so much.
2006-08-26 15:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by lost_soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age, I would never date a nice guy. Maybe you should try being mean to a girl you like and see what happens! At the very least she won't want to be friends with you. FYI, when you get older don't date girls who only like jerks, they are messed up!
2006-08-25 19:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by Nicky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy being single in a few years girls will want a nice guy... Until then enjoy being free from childish fights, expensive dates, freedom of going out when you please, and the fact that you can look at a girl and talk to her without wondering if you are making your present girlfriend mad...
2006-08-25 21:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jamie, My mama once told me, there is someone out there for everybody. Some people find that person early on, and some finds theirs later on. I thought she was full of it....but you know what, she was right. Be patient and just be the person that you are. Love will come to you....
2006-08-25 19:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by Wild seed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by following a girl without her knowing it. You get to see what she is really like and eventually she will learn to appreciate you.
2006-08-25 19:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you could change what your wearing is that the problem,what is it that they don't like about you.im sorry your having this problem.but maybe you should ask a girl what it is they don't like about you and then change it.good luck i hope this helps.
kathy
2006-08-25 19:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by kwaynedglvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a make over change your style of clothing
2006-08-25 19:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by Moo moo I'm a chicken 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋