Girls only please?

Question

What turns you on when a guy you dont know starts talking to you.Whats the best way to talk without sounding dumb or like a jerk? Thanks

Answer 1

Just be yourself. If a girl likes you she'll like you for you. Don't pretend to be someone you are not. My husband was shy when he started talking to me. He did some of the dorkiest things ever, but I thought it was cute. It showed he was REAL. 17 years later I still remember how he "courted" me. TRUST ME - JUST BE YOU!

Answer 2

The one thing that turns me on is HONESTY. When I meet a guy and I see he is being honest and not full of himself. I really am attracted to that. Talk about things that interest you and if she is the right girl they will interest her too. A big turn off is men that are so focused on sex. Men that make crude remarks or hits about getting into bed. I hate those kind of men, they are not honest. It sounds stupid as you may think yourself is not attracting any women but really be your self. What will happen if you act like you are something you are not and the day comes when you can not act anymore all that time will go down the drain when the girl finds out you lied to her all this time. So talk about current events, music, something funny, just life in general. Don't talk about negative things try and keep the conversation light and happy. Be honest and be yourself.

Answer 3

I usually look out for a nice smile, relaxed attitude, ability to make me laugh, I always test a guy I find attractive by saying semi serious stuff to see if he can recognise when I am being sarcastic or making a joke, if he doesnt get me straight off then I sometimes dont bother going any further, however occassionally I do recognise when a guy means well but is trying just a bit too hard, I usually give those guys a bit more time to impress me... so be yourself and work on your natural funniness, girls luv that!!!

Answer 4

I mean the best way to talk to a female without sounding weird or like a jerk is to talk natural and not try to come on so easy. I mean start a normal conversation like talk about current events and or ur daily life. Dont talk about sports or any other subjects near that matter, just be all natural the conversation will flow on its own.

Answer 5

I love it when a new guy leans towards me and talks to me looking me straight in the eyes. That "lean" shows that he is attracted to me and his attention will make even a stupid conversation fun to share with him. I hate it when a guy strikes up a convo and then keeps looking around the room. It is not only rude, but could get him a kick in the shins!

Answer 6

ok.. girls like funny nice guys
i know
cuz im a girl
youve gotta be nice and funny
half and half
its tough
cuz if your more nice than funny
just that can screw it up
we girls like to laugh sometime
have a good time with a guy
like me
i like guys better than girls
there more fun to be with
you dont even have to be with them
its fun watchin em
LOL
its true
if your a guy
and theres an active girl next to you.
make sure your friends are there next to you
so you can start talkin like your self in front of them and the girl
but it depends how old you are..
your attitude has to be suitable for your age
you cant look too fun after 40

Answer 7

Be yourself, talk to her like you are interested, but be interested at the same time. Be confident, assertive, and calm. Getting worked up is what will cause problems. Just relax, let the words come to you instead of thinking to deeply about them.

Answer 8

You know when you put the title "girls only", no girls are going to read it because they figure it is too stupid and inmature for them, and all the guys are going to read it because they think they are reading something special, or something they are not supposed to be reading. Sorry! But otherwise for your question.

To talk to a girl you just have to be yourself, do not try to be somebody you are not. Theres a girl out there for everybody, good luck finding yours!!! And remember, be yourself!!!! ~_~! Cheers!

Answer 9

as long as it isnt anything sexual.. you are pretty much safe... Dont walk up too me and say.. Hey baby, you look like you would be good in bed. Dont think that would get ya anywhere...Just what ever is on your mind, why you wanted to talk to me, that kind of stuff

Answer 10

i like the voice or how nice the seem or the fact that everything is about him, and don't do chessy stuff, it's not worth it. but always be yourself. but keep your face nice cause it's the first thing we see. I wish you the best of luck in the love life.