i've had strong feelings for this guy for a few years.he was basically the only guy i was intimate with.i actually lost my virginity to him.but i kept it all a secret.about a month after we had sex..i found out he was secretly dating my best friend for 4 months.and nobody knew about it.everyone thought that him and her were just really close friends because thats what they told everyone.they had sex many many times.he told us both lies so that her & i wouldn't talk to each other anymore..and for a month her and i weren't friends..until we found out about our secret relationships with this guy.so now i don't talk to this guy anymore..and for awhile she didn't either.but now him and her are friends again and she claims they aren't dating anymore.yet theyre always together.and she gets mad when i ask if theyre dating.and i still have feelings for him that just won't go away.what do i do?! help!!
2006-08-25 11:31:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'd seriously hate to be in this situation, but it looks like you and your friend are letting a guy get in between your friendship. I could understand how u still have feelings with him afterwards and how u become jealous when you found out that your friend and the guy were still talking. I say you forget about them both, it'll take time to move on since that was your best friend and he was your first. Obviously your friend must not care about your feelings because she's still associating with him and he obviously didnt care that much about your feelings because he turned you and your bestfriend against eachother. no matter what u and your best friend won't be the same because you'll both know in the back of your heads that you could still be holding a grudge over what happened...just drop them both and try finding new friends. You seriously dont need any back stabbers.
2006-08-25 11:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by @bsolutely $weet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not something. the guy wasn't in touch in you. She did not stab you in the lower back because you suggested your self that you've been not courting the guy. when you're extremely close with your chum do not enable a guy come between you. He is in basic terms not round that lengthy have self assurance me yet your friendship can very last a existence time if that's straightforward. enable it bypass. you're dealing with a jealous area more beneficial so than being harm. Be a chum and settle for his decision.
2016-11-27 21:35:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she is a very good friend. She sounds like she is in more competition. At first maybe she was mad at this guy for double playing you guys, but now it seems shes over her isues with him but still wants him knowing that he hurt you both. I wouldn't trust her as far as I can throw her if I were you. You are better off without either one of them.
2006-08-25 11:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by Ro Ro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? This guys a player, he doesnt deserve any thought you give him. Your young, go date other guys and enjoy your youth. Not only will it bother this Joker to see that your moving on, youll be better off for doing it. Never let circumstances determine your happiness and never give your heart to people that dont deserve it. Someone (the right one) will treasure your heart and wont treat you like a slut.
2006-08-25 11:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well until u call her a back stabber, u need to find out for sure if they r dating or not. but u should definetely forget about the guy cause u know he's the cheater and liar in ur game...
2006-08-25 11:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by *JJtrue♥* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really have to ask? Do you want to be with a guy like that? Do you want a friend like that? I think you know the answer and are just afraid to say it.
2006-08-25 11:45:24 · answer #6 · answered by leblongeezer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound to me like either of them is much of a friend. You can do better than these two bozoes. Cut your losses and ditch both of them. You are waaaay better off without either of them.
Good luck
2006-08-25 11:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex until you are married, when you are mature and ready to deal with complications of emotions, and you won't have to get hurt and go through lies, etc. as you explained.
2006-08-25 11:35:54 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like you lot should be on the Jerry Springer show lol
2006-08-25 11:38:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know about back stabber but if that gal's yer best friend, yer pretty bad off.
2006-08-25 11:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋