I've always liked girls. They turn me on like any other straight male, but lately, I find myself getting turned on to pics of shirtless guys. And it kind of shames me to admit it, but having sex with a guy sounds interesting. However, having an emotional relationship with another male sounds disgusting. I feel I can only have emotional relationships and "snuggle" with women. Please just give me some basic advice or what your thoughts are as this is quite confusing.
2006-08-25 11:21:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Sorry to put this in psychology, but I'm not sure where else it belongs.
2006-08-25 11:22:10 · update #1
I am also slightly religious, so I know that homosexuality is....erm....wrong? Yeah. I don't know. I know I'm usually very conservative on answers, but I figured it was time to come out with a softer side and show my true inner struggle.
2006-08-25 11:34:00 · update #2
I would say, go ahead, experiment around. Be safe, but find out what makes you happy, and don't listen overly to your sense of shame. But if you do have sex with a guy, be sure he's aware if you're not willing to have an emotional relationship or snuggle - a lot of people simply aren't willing to have sex without committment or intimacy.
2006-08-25 11:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by nobody 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are trying to find your true self. Being with someone of the same sex is not wrong. If you feel this way, you should experiment....go on dates, gay bars, that sore of thing. That way you will know for sure if you're gay, straight, or bisexual. As always, if you choose to go that far, practice safe sex practices. Good Luck!
2006-08-25 11:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just stick with girls. It sounds like you have "bi" tendencies but only when it comes to sex, so try not to give into them, you'd only end up having meaningless sex with me. Go ahead and look and fantasize once in awhile if you want, but to keep your self-respect, don't engage in sex with people you can't also have the emotional relationship with.
2006-08-25 11:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by nimo22 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I don’t think your sexual orientation is your big problem. Second of all, leave religion out of your life when it comes to your sexual identity...Religions are OLD and with most old stuff comes conservatism. This is only going to tell you to be straight, live a drug free life and only have sex when you want to have kids. NO ONE here can tell you your sexual orientation…its what ever you believe you are. You might be a homosexual, bisexual, asexual or pansexual. My advice is for you to go with your gut feeling and experiment. They say you are give only one sexual orientation but it’s up to you to find out which one.
Ps. DON’T BE SUCH A HOMOPHOBE.
2006-08-25 11:54:30 · answer #4 · answered by Modification 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with being bisexual. There is nothing experimental about. UR BISEXUAL. It's normal if you have only though about having sex with another guy. It happens when you are new a this. Eventually, you may develop emotions for another guy. You just have not foud the right guy. Let me ask you a big favor. ALWAYS! ALWAYS! ALWAYS! USE A CONDOM. AND PLEASE! PLEASE! Never trust anybody. BE CAREFUL.
2006-08-26 20:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by V 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your half bi. meaning 25% males 75% females. you like to mess around but arent willing to commit. same as me. i love a girls body there so natually beautiful and i like to "vist" there bodies but i could never settle down with a girl because i got madd love for the fellows.
2006-08-25 11:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by dizzogurl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your trying to find yourself. Maybe you are bi? Why not try it out and see where it goes. Good luck to you.
2006-08-25 11:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by tpurtygrl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are gay and you are finally feeling your true feels.
2006-08-25 11:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by ♀Mañana♥^¥ ♪☺↕♫©⢠size= 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your bisexual, if you find yourself turned on by a certain person maybe you should expirement and see how you feel then.
2006-08-25 11:26:12 · answer #9 · answered by Pink Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bi-curious? find a one night stand and see how it goes over with you? you'll have all the answers you need after that.
2006-08-25 11:27:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋