well i have these two friends, erin and carly and they fight and stuff and dont like eachother. and then sometimes they get along with eachother. love them both and stuff but lets say if i hang out with erin carly gets jealous and if i hang out with carly erin get jealous. i dont want to hang out with both of them at once because they will fight or go along with eachother without me. i dont no what to do! HELP!
2006-08-25 11:20:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just because you're friends with both of them does not mean that they have to be friends with each other,
so what if you hang out with one and the other gets jealous, thats not your problem, let them sort out their issues with each (though im sure they'd appreciate it if you helped)
and if they want to be all childish and immature and possesive over you tell them, hey you like hanging out with both of them and you want to give them both equal amounts of your time,
if they dont like it, either suck it up and the three of you hang out together, or the one just has to give you space when you are hanging with the other,
they should not make you choose between the two of them, they are the ones with the choice to make
2006-08-25 11:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by punkrockprincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, yeah i know how you feel. I used to have a friend that liked a girl I hated. But eventually i got to know the other girl better, so now i'm not jelous anymore. Don't worry, time will heal. For now just don't tell them your hanging out with the other one. It can be a secret between both you. If they are your real friends, they wont care about who you hang out with, but just that you hang out with them also. Good luck:)
2006-08-25 18:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by dollerstorelover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to both of them about it. Tell them that you want them to get along and all hanout together with fighting.
2006-08-25 18:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋