i cant stop thinking about this one guy that goes to my school and is in my grade. he's perfect. nice, funny, has his own personality, and is a great student. another plus is that his locker is right next to mine. unfourtuantly, being perfect usually gets you a girlfriend. and his girlfrend is my best friend, who has a locker right next to his....i know this is really cleched but it's true all the way. :( idk what to do. i care for this guy as a friend as i do with all my friends. i also care about my friend (his gf..) and i dont want to hurt her or rush him. HELP!!!
2006-08-25 11:16:59 · 30 answers · asked by Willow 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oh. i might mention that she may or may not want to break up with him cuz she feels too tied down...
2006-08-25 11:27:14 · update #1
ok whatever. you guys arn't helping so stfu. ive been emailing this guy and im feeling a whole lot better. and im depressed for other resons too...just this was pitching me further into depression...and ive like this guy for almost two years...so like i said. stfu.
2006-08-25 13:28:04 · update #2
i'm too ... want to cry ?
2006-08-25 11:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never go after another womans man. Learn this now and you will stay happy. Lets say you act on your feelings and he does not feel the same. What happens now you lost a nice male friend and you lost your best girlfriend as he will surely tell her or someone else will. Ok lets say you go for it and he likes you too, now you have this man that you think is great but as you see he is not so great that he dumped his gf for the first girl that comes along he is not very loyal and that is a downer, plus you just lost your best girlfriend and most likely a few other friends as well. I am sure you and your girlfriend have mutal friends and there will be sides taken and in the end either way you will be the BIG LOSER... Best things is smile and keep these feelings inside and try and think of as a brother if that helps just keep your feelings to your self .. GOOD LUCK TO YOU
2006-08-25 11:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by lost_soul 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really need to stop and ask youself. Is this guy worth ruining your friendship with your best friend? I don't think so. Sometimes you have to take the higher road even when it gets hard. We can't all have what we want in life, and sometimes you have to let things be. If you honestly care about them both, I would let them be happy. Be happy that there are 2 people whom you care about deeply who have each other and that they have a goof friendship with you that you can respect that. Sweetie you sound like a nice girl You will find someone who can truly appreciate you and what you have to offer.
2006-08-25 11:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ro Ro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
therer will b other guys u like. just get over him,find another guy u find atractive that isnt dating currently. or i dont know if this is the right thing to do but maybe u should talk to ur friend about it.?
hope everything goes welll
bye=)
p.s: u need to stay happy, dont waste ur time being depressed,its not worth it. BE HAPPY
2006-08-25 11:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by {{;*$! BIANCA_A.K.A_CARNE !$*;}} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
successful relationships of the long-term (marital) hardly ever grow out of high school romances....it may seem like a hard thing now, but in a few months the infatuation will probably fade & you'll wonder what you were thinking to put so much stock in this relationship....be patient...kids shouldn't be allowed to date 'til they're at least 25 anyway...too much time is wasted getting your heart broken over & over again...OK...l'll come down to 18, but only under strict adult supervision.....
Be Blessed <><
2006-08-25 11:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by aBranch@60-WA ,<>< 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about it.
start to think about something else because the more you dwell on it the more miserable you will be.
look to a hobby or a job or something..take your mind off it and you will feel so much better.
things will happen for a reason.
i don't think you should chase after someone who is your best friends' guy..it makes no sense to do that.
have some respect..and soon you will find someone too.
2006-08-25 11:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you particular that no longer something occurring with your loved ones or own existence? in keeping with risk there are issues there. If no longer, Then I have not any thought why you're depressed. tell your dad and mom.
2016-09-30 00:01:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be loyal to your friend! If it doesn't work out with the two of them then maybe someday, he will be available to you. In the mean time look around for someone with the same characteristics. Above all, be a loyal friend.
2006-08-25 11:24:43 · answer #8 · answered by linda c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to worry about this guy you think is amazing but soon you'll see was just a regular kid, nothing more. Join some groups, develop hobbies, kids love to brood but it is not healthy, if it's overdone. Laugh it up. It's not raining inside!
2006-08-25 11:20:01 · answer #9 · answered by robert r 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to enjoy being young, and just try to do the right thing.
As long as your intention is to do the right thing(but no lying to yourself about this), then things will workout.
If you are supposed to be with this guy then things will work out.
PS But if its not supposed to happen and you go after her boyfriend, then of course you will hurt her.
2006-08-25 11:29:36 · answer #10 · answered by erickallen101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes time. Just try to be in lots of activities with this guy. And when he breaks up with this girl (which someday he probably will) then make your move!! Or just flirt with him a lot. And if he doesn't break up with her... move on! there are more cute guys out there!
2006-08-25 11:20:03 · answer #11 · answered by Sage G. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋