He's freaking out??

Question

i just called my bf to voice my concern about being pregnant and he bought a test and i took it 10 min ago and its a very dark positive it says on the box to still see a doctor does that mean it's not a 100% accurate.? he is freaking out saying our lives are ruined and is lying down. when would i have gotten pregnant i skipped june but had light spotting first week of july for 2 -3 days just brown with little bit of pink?so i am confused i thought it was maybe a week or two along or that i could take some pill? we are both leaving for college next week me on friday him on wensday we will be hour away from one another.what are our options?and can i just wait and see a college nurse?

i am 5ft 6 and 104 pounds so when will i show?

i'm scared my parents will disown me

Answer 1

You probably got pregnant in June. So you're 2 months along and it's too late for any pill.

You should visit your Dr for a follow up test and to discuss the options available to you.

Answer 2

Go see a obgyn immediately. Chances are that you are pregnant and are too far along for a morning after pill. The doctor can give you a pg test and run some blood work to see if you have an infection and let you know the results quickly.

You can wait and see the nurse or doctor at school, if you like. Just don't let it mess with your head in the meantime.

You already know what your options are. No one has to tell you. As for your bf, I hope he is man enough to stand by you no matter what decision you make. Good luck.

Answer 3

I thought my folks would freak when I found out I was pregnant it is surprising how wrong you can be on that score! My daughter is now 25 years old and will be making me a nana in March next year. I am sooooooooooo glad I decided to continue with my pregnancy. But you must do what is right for you.

My second pregnancy I had periods for the first 3 months. I would get a check up with your doctor asap if I were you.

Why is your boyfriend freaking? He should have used a condom in the first place............. grrrrrrrrrrrrrr men!

Answer 4

He's lying down?? He says your lives are ruined?? What the f***?

Grab the little as******* by the throat and slam him in to the wall NOW. He was big enough to knock you up, he's big enough to handle it.

What the hell does he think he's going to be like at 3 o'clock in the morning when he hasn't slept for 20 hours and the baby is crying and vomiting because he isn't well?????????

Grow up, the pair of you. You now have the perfect opportunity to show your parents where they went wrong all these years.

Jesus. All children should be sterilised until they are adults.

PS Congratulations on the pregnancy. I hope all goes well for you. Your parents will still love you, that's what parents do. They love their children - even the ones who dissapoint them.

Answer 5

Im sure things will work out, both of you are probably shocked. You will figure out whats best for you.

Walk into a Planned Parenthood and take the test, its $10 then you can know for sure and decide where you go from there. If you're old enough to leave home for college, your parents should understand your also old enough to have a child and these things happen when you least expect it if you're not careful.

Answer 6

You got pregnant in June probably it's too late for the pill, and will soon be too late for an abortion ( if that is a choice for you) most women show around 3-5 months as well. Good luck!

Answer 7

the test is not wrong when it say that you are. Your life's are not going to be ruin. Your parents are not going to dis own you. They will be their for you. You will started to show around your 5 month. If you want go to a client and get tested their but mostly likely you are having a baby. The client will help you and give you more info and stuff. So I would go to the client and see what they can do.

Answer 8

Give your boyfriend time to get over the shock. I wouldnt wait, see a doc asap. You say you skipped you period in June, that could make you as far along as 3+ months pregnant.
Your parents will need time to adjust/calm down after you've told them aswell.

Good luck

Answer 9

Okay calm down you have alot of options , yes you will still have to see a doctor to confirm it and then tell him your concerns and he can give you a list of options open to you and there is alot of support groups out there to help and i dont think your family will be as bad as you think so calm down and try to make an appointment with the doctor as soon as you can after all it might be a false alarm

Answer 10

the "plan b" pill does not work if you are already pregnant. its for stopping you from getting pregnant-making your egg not work anymore. let him freak out. there is plenty to freak out about. i would definitely call your mom and talk to her. take another test to make sure, but you are prob. prego. most universities have free daycare if you are a student. they're elementary education students are mandatory to volunteer @ the campus daycare. (or so it is in Texas.) calm down. look at all your options before doing anything you might regret later on. i would go to your nearest planned parenthood office and take a test there. they can offer you counseling and will fully tell you about your options. it will all work out even if your man doesnt stay around.