i was seeing my ex for 4 yrs ok i end up pregnant when we was broken up, at this point we still live together, he is seeing people while i am about to go into labor i have 2 weeks to go he think that its ok he know plenty of guys who have girls pregnant and they not with them do you think i am crazy to be upset he thinks i am crazy and should get over it tell me what to do
2006-08-25 11:04:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Stress is bad for the baby!! Let him go!
2006-08-25 11:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen i know its harsh but get over him move out for your own sake it must be driving you mad get a place for you and the baby there is no way he is going to want anything to do with the baby its not his . You will have enough to deal with when the baby comes along so move out asap and after a few months who knows you might find the man of your dreams .
There is no good in upsetting yourself about him because its not good for you or the baby.
2006-08-25 18:35:21 · answer #2 · answered by shaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think as soon as you have the baby and get well and The baby is a least about 2 months you should or he should move out but in the mean time start looking.
2006-08-25 18:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by turkankey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out as soon as you can.This could easily throw you into a bad depression after the baby arrives.Leave right this momment if you have some other place you can stay.Go sign up for HUD or some kind of housing program.GET OUT GIRL!
2006-08-27 12:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get over him and take care of yourself and your child. He obviously doesn't care that he's 1/2 responsible for starting a family with you. Lay down ground rules if you want/need to stay with him until you can get on your own. Don't wimp out - you have much more than yourself to worry about now. Toughen up and take charge. You're the momma now!
2006-08-25 18:23:49 · answer #5 · answered by mandabear3121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and him are not together as a couple then you have no business living together. Goodness or even having sex for that matter. One of you need to move out.
2006-08-25 18:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't want to be with you. unfortunately there are no rules that say people who parent a child together have to stay together. forget about him stupid a$$ and concentrate on what you and the baby are going to do.
2006-08-25 18:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you take English in school? I can barely understand what you are saying. But anyways, if he's doing all of this, then you need to leave and find someone better.
2006-08-25 18:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by tantalizin1 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move out after baby is born or start to see other people see how he likes it!
2006-08-25 18:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a way to move out otherwise you're stuck watching him date other people.
2006-08-25 18:21:52 · answer #10 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋