cause i have a friend who's known as that..but she is the most understanding down to earth person i have spoken to. while other girls are snobby and materialistic and what not. but the thing is..ever since i started to hang out with her...no one ever associates with me anymore (like before)..am i puttin myself in the wrong spot?
2006-08-25 10:32:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
i'd probably still be friends with her unless you really cared about what other peopel thought
2006-08-25 10:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't spend too much time worrying about people who were never truly your friend to begin with. You should look at someone's heart, not what others think (Sounds like that is what you have done:)) Just be strong and know that what others think of you does not define who you are...does that make sense?
I spent too much of my life worrying about what other people thought...wanting other people to like me. It is not worth it. Just take those who are true friends and let the rest get lost!
2006-08-25 17:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by starrzfan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a true fiend what ever that person is like it should not matter. One thing people need to understad is that just because people are a certain way it does not mean that the rest of the people that hang out with them are not the same. Those who do not hang out with you because of who you talk to are not your friends. They should want to hang out with you because you are fun to be aroun not because of who you talk to.
2006-08-25 17:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL, I USED TO HAVE A FRIEND LIKE THAT TOO. HER REPUTATION WAS, AND STILL IS HORRIBLE. HOWEVER, I TRIED FOR YEARS TO BE FRIENDS WITH HER, HOPING TO LEAD BY EXAMPLE AND TO SHOW HER THAT YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE UN-LADY LIKE OR SLUTTY JUST TO GET ATTENTION. THIS WENT ON FOR YEARS AND EVENTUALLY BECAME A PROBLEM FOR THE FRIENDSHIP BECAUSE IT TURNED INTO "GUILTY BY ASSOCIATION" FOR LACK OF BETTER TERMS. SO, I WOULD STRONGLY SUGGEST THAT YOU RE-EVALUATE THE TERMS OF THE FRIENDSHIP AND AS LONG AS IT ISN''T DAMAGING TO YOUR REPUTATION, THEN CONTINUE TO BE THERE FOR HER.
MY SITUATION WAS JUST A BIT DIFFERENT BECAUSE SHE THOUGHT THAT BY PUTTING ME DOWN FOR BEING DIFFERENT FROM HER WAS CUTE, AND IT CLEARLY ISN'T, SO I HAD TO SEVER ALL TIES WITH HER AND THAT WAS A MOVE THAT I DON'T REGRET AT ALL. GOOD LUCK...
2006-08-25 17:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about peeps, people will always have thing to say weather its about her, your or someone else ....... can't stop people from talking..... to u i think u should consider weither it tainting your rep.... is people considering u to be a slut too? and if so, is your rep worth your rep? do u have a bro what does he say about the situation? their is alot of thing to consider here....... e mail me if u think i can help u k........
2006-08-25 17:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
more after high school then during it. at least that what it seems like to me as i have a lot more friends now then i did then.
2006-08-25 17:38:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋