2006-08-25 10:25:41 · 10 answers · asked by alta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Eleven years and still counting, don't know if I can ever remarry again, and that's not counting the 4yrs we were separated and then divorced.
2006-08-25 10:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I left my last husband in 11/05, filed for divorce in 1/06, and it was final in 4/06.
I didn't waste any time at all.
And I've been with someone else for 9 mos, living together, happy as could be. And I DEFINITELY want to marry this man. But he's divorced, too, his took quite a while and he dated four women in the 2yrs after his split before he met me.
I met him while I was still with my husband, tho it was already long on the rocks.
I'm ready to marry again but my bf wants to wait.
Everyone is different.
2006-08-25 10:37:40 · answer #2 · answered by moniquebell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was separated for 2 months before I filed. But I knew the minute I left that it was what I wanted. The court made me wait for 1 year before we went to court.
2006-08-25 11:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by oddbutterfly1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married 11yrs split for 3yrs divorced for 1 yr and living with a man and getting married in june of 2007
2006-08-25 10:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by doodiemoonwalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having been by divorce myself - i ought to signify you concentration on determining a deal one on one with your ex. It feels like he ought to nicely be negotiable and also you ought to come out funds ahead once you concentration on how a lot the legal expenditures will cost for a conflict divorce. also, your peace is worth more beneficial than any volume of money. evaluate suggesting a 50/50 chop up of all sources except his pension. Ask him if he will provide you 40% of the pension and that you'll be able to both report for an uncontested divorce. after all do not forget that legal expenditures WILL run in the thousands and probably 10's of thousands in a bloody divorce. and also you ought to both loose on the peace of concepts area. maximum important theory i'll signify is to hit upon a monetary stability aspect mutually and then get a legal professional mutually (one legal professional will do) or perhaps as in the technique of divorce make certain in case you want to go back for your maiden call as in the course of the technique of assigning sources you may wrap each thing right into a similar legal kit. My ex and that i did in basic terms what i'm suggesting and we both walked away with funds in tact and peace of concepts. My youthful brother took the bloody divorce direction and after 2 or 3 years of struggling with wound up emotonally wrecked and broke. Oh certain, did I aspect out the attorneys made out like a bandit...
2016-11-27 21:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Separated 6 years. Eventually one of us will break down and actually file for divorce.
2006-08-25 17:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by StLMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
separated 2 months, my love for him has been gone for a while. I am just starting divorce proceedings. It depends on what broke up the marriage, as to whether it can be fixed or not. Make sure you can live with your decision.
2006-08-25 10:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by kirsty h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex filed shortly after we separated -- or after she left. It took 3 months for the courts to get on the ball.
Might take a while.
2006-08-25 10:40:02 · answer #8 · answered by Rob N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married 18 years - left last october - living with someone else. marriage was dead 5 years before i actually left it - he cheated, wouldn't work. divorce is done.
2006-08-25 10:31:28 · answer #9 · answered by sherrie k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
married 23yrs single 3yrs not ready for marriage yet. bad experience, but I now have 2 great kids
2006-08-25 10:30:05 · answer #10 · answered by iceman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋