especially if you are married and just wanted to experince it but i think that lesbians are to attach and will not let you go my bestfriend is a married and wants to experience it but is afraid that the women will keep wanting to see her and not let her go keep calling her even threathing her to tell her husband thats what she thinks will happen like in the movies????what do you think ???????
2006-08-25
10:22:48
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i think they will look for you i tell my friend not to do... not worth her marriage? but she's thniking about it oh well see what happens?
2006-08-25
10:33:08 ·
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i don't think all lesbians are like that but some are and you don't know what to expect?
2006-08-25
10:37:13 ·
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hs, ha, lol thats a good one quatt47, but no thanks i happy as i am not that i have anything againist lesbian but not my choice,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,funny ,funny
2006-08-25
10:39:43 ·
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Movies are movies, and if we base everything in life on what we see in the movies we'll all be living in a unrealistic world. Not all women would stalk and threaten their lovers, some of them are out there just to experience the rush of being with another woman as well.
I do think though that if your friend was to experience being with another woman that she would most probably be the one to go back and try it again, whether it is with the same woman or not. I'd recommend she stays put, and enjoy the heterosexual life because going into that other realm is allowing yourself to be vulnerable to a whole new side of sexuality. It may even start to affect her sex life with her husband as she now knows how sex with a woman feels, and he may not be able to satisfy her the way the woman did when she had that experience.
Curiosity is normal, but I think your friend should put some thought into it, and figure out where it's coming from. Not to say that she is a closet lesbian or anything, but is it necessary to express her sexual needs with another person rather than her husband? Personally, I'll categorize it as cheating, once you go to another person whether it is physical or emotional it is considered cheating on your SO.
So tell her to think about it a little more, and turn to her husband for whatever sexual needs she may be craving. On the other hand however, if she does find the need to turn to someone else, even if it is the same sex, for sexual pleasure...then there is a deeper underlying problem that she needs to recognize.
I hope this helps!
2006-08-25 10:31:38
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answered by micheypoo 4
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I personally don't want to be any ones "experiment" I'm not a play thing to be tossed in the garbage when you are done, that's wrong. However, I'm sure there are women out there that would be willing. Just make sure that she is honest and upfront from the very beginning. Make sure she tells the person, "I'm not in this for love, just sex, and I don't want to see you again after-wards." Otherwise she could end up with problems cause it's not cool to play with someones emotions!
2006-08-25 18:56:55
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answered by NoBoysAllowed! 3
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She thinks that it possible and she can also find herself doing the exact same thing calling them while they're at home chillin' with their girlfriends and so on. They should not call and threaten her as long as she let them know in the beginning she's married and not looking for a relationship she just want s to f***! The answer to your question I would not like to have sex with another woman and that's it (i'm not that type of person).
2006-08-25 17:38:03
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answered by Necole 3
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you have to have an agreement first, talk about the situation, pay me (just kidding!) we meet and take care of her needs ; ) .You gotta be careful, there are some lesbos who are *ucking nuts, won't leave you the hell alone. tell your friend, whatever she does, don't go to a bar to meet one, that's not good. I've been with quite a few strait women,never had any problems because i always respected their lives. Your friend needs to find someone who's not into the bar scene and who doesn't have a different girl all the time, that will also cause problems.
2006-08-25 17:41:24
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answered by MeLissa 3
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she needs to get over herself! does she or you really think that lesbians are that desperate??? do you think a lesbian will even want to do this? would you and your partner want to have sex with a gay man or lesbian, just so they could see what it is like? think that if she wants to have this experience then she needs to see about finding someone that is bisexual. maybe another couple. the internet has some sites that can hook couples and singles up. but really, she needs to quit thinking that she is going to end up being stalked or have her bunny boiled. the movies isn't real life.
2006-08-25 17:30:15
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answered by liz 3
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Well, it's like these jokes that ppl tell about gay women...
What does a lesbian bring on a second date?
A U-Haul truck.
Yeah, they are known for not letting go, but hey, I'm a straight guy so what the h3ll to I know...?
2006-08-25 17:26:39
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answered by Anonymous
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Maybe she is Bisexual (meaning going with both genders) and does not know it.
Nothing bad about being Bi. I have a few Bi friends male and femal. They just enjoy the possibilities. But safe sex is important here and to be taken seriously.
http://www.lgbtcenter.northwestern.edu/support-whatitmeans.html#you
2006-08-25 17:32:06
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answered by angelikabertrand64 5
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Like if you met the perfect women without knowing her name and have wild sex and never see her again ....sure why not the husband doesn't need to ever know.
2006-08-25 17:29:01
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answered by Anonymous
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Anytime anyone cheats, whether the cheating is of a hetero or homosexual nature, there is always the chance that things will get messy. If she doesn't want to chance her husband finding out that she cheated, then she shouldn't cheat. Period.
2006-08-25 23:59:53
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answered by Nicole 4
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Just do it with a like minded person - don't go using some unsuspecting lesbian just to satisfy your curiosity.
2006-08-25 17:28:46
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answered by SimonSays 4
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