how do i convice my boyfriend to use a condom we were each others firsts lost it after prom and i thought if i just regulated not to have sex before my period i was fine now i am worried because my period never came last month and i dont now how to tell him or my dad/ mom. once we started having sex it was hard to stop and we had more time to hang out over the summer and he said he did not like how condom felt and i did not now how to get the pill. i went to catholic school so i did not take sex. ed. am scared i went up 2 bra sizes and feel tiered and bloated.
2006-08-25 10:06:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i am too embarrassed to buy a test can i get one by mail?
2006-08-25 10:06:43 · update #1
i am leaving for college next week and so is my bf
2006-08-25 10:08:49 · update #2
my parents are uber conservative and very protective ont let me drive even with my liscense by myself
2006-08-25 10:10:35 · update #3
I would tell you boyfriend that if he does not want to wear a condom then you two shouldnt have sex. You should also get on birth control. You shouldnt only be worried about getting pregnant but also worried about all the STDs out there.
If your not able to go to your mother, try going to a Planned parent hood. They can test you to see if you are pregnant and also get you on some birth control.
2006-08-25 10:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by ladybug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step 1 relax! Step two. You can get free pregnancy tests over the internet. go to a search engine and type it in. Don't freak out, which I'm sure that you are, but chances are pretty good that you are pregnant. And you know what? You'll be fine. It happens. Try talking to someone you trust that's older, like an aunt or an older cousin. It will all work out in the end if you are. and your life is not over, it may change drastically, but far from over. so take a deep breath and remember, you will be fine.
2006-08-25 11:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a pregnancy test. You can buy it at walmart or the grocery store, if you're terribly shy about it have your BF do it.
You can get birth control pills from your county health department or your doctor.
About him not perfering condoms, sex is serious stuff. If he doesn't want to wear a condom, just don't have sex with him. I know it sounds corny, but "No glove, no love."
And shame on your parents for not educating you on this subject. Best wishes.
2006-08-25 10:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i recommend you to go and buy a preganncy test at any convenice store. You dont want to get pregnant at this time, college is the next step you want to experience because it is where you experience where you want to go and do or your life. Having a child at this moment can kill all of your goal!
Asked your boyfriend if he is ready for a family of his own with kid? Is he ready to give up a lot of time spenting with his friends and going out? Tell him that he should be responsible for his action if it did happen.
If he still refused to use the condom and not ready for family, then i think it is time to move on..because he is not worth of your time!
2006-08-25 10:17:25 · answer #4 · answered by kathy T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be pregnant! But don't freak out. you can find pregnancy test at your local pharmacy. If the test comes back positive go to a local hospital. They'll test you again if you are pregnant tell who's ever you closer too. I suggest a parent. Then tell your boyfriend second. Don't be surprised if his reaction isn't what you hoped for just give it time. and GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-25 10:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by Princess11792 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are pregnant. One thing is you cant hide it forever. You have to tell your boyfriend right a way. He has a right to know first. He helped you get into this and he should help you get out of it. You have to get a pregnancy test. I know it can be embarrassing, but go to a store that you normally dont go to. The cashier wont think anything of it, they sell millions of them. You have to find out if your pregnant for sure because if so you need to get to a doctor. Its very important to have prenatal care. Your doctor can help you. You will adventually have to tell your parents. That will probably be the hardest thing you ever have done, but if they truely love, and i'm sure they do, they will come around and be there for you. Of course they are going to be upset at first. Good Luck and please go to the doctor asap
2006-08-25 10:15:09 · answer #6 · answered by mommylee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think you're old enough to have sex, then you need to grow up and be old enough to go buy a pregnancy test. This is why God commanded no sex till marriage. You really need to take responsibility for your actions. You did this and you have a responsibility to the baby. Hopefully, you'll decide to give him/her up for adoption to someone who is mature enough to take care of him/her.
2006-08-25 10:14:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mom of 3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are pregnant go to the store and buy a test or have a friend do it for you then take it and tell you parents
2006-08-25 10:10:29 · answer #8 · answered by ndanylevich01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
darling you need to get a pregnancy test. if you find out that youre not, you need to go to a doctor and get on birthcontrol pills, look for a planned parenthood arouond youre area
2006-08-25 10:08:45 · answer #9 · answered by fable f 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl u need to take a ept test right away!
2006-08-25 10:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by Veronica A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋