How should i start a conversation with a girl i donno her and i see her for the first time ?

Question

I don't know how to start a conversation with girls and what they like to talk about !!!!!!
ladies plz , Give me some idea plz.

Thank u.

Answer 1

Need more info than that. Where do you see her? If you see her at school or college hang about where she hangs about. Find out about her from friends, best way to get to a girl is through her friends. If the friends like you its half the battle. if you want her to notice you be where she will be but don't make it look like your following her about. I know if a guy is quite often where i am i will notice him.
Girls love it when guys smell nice, wear nice aftershave, that is the one thing all my friends use to turn around and look when a guy walks past and smells, you always look to see who it is.

Try and wait until she is on her own, that way her friends wont butt in at the time and she may be more relaxed to talk to you. Again, it depends where you see this girl, smile at her if you see her and she catches your eye and next time she is on her own just say hi.
If your in a pub ask her if you can buy her a drink. If you want ideas of what she likes to talk about, be around when she's with her friends and listen to what they talk about.
Just be yourself, and don't use any cheesy lines such as do you come here often, girls actually do like to talk about the same things as guys, i.e music, films, Again it depends where you know her from and possibly her age.
Ask her if she likes the music if there's any on, does she want to dance, again try and wait till she is on her own i.e at the bar.
Girls like to be told they look nice, smell nice e.t.c but in a sincere way.
hope this helps

Answer 2

Be nice, don't mention any part of their body ;)
Introduce yourself and just say why this girl had caught your attention among the others, that's all: "I think you're pretty", "what you said was interesting", "I liked when you said...". The two last ones are better for having something to talk about rather than just saying "you have pretty eyes".

Be honest and don't try to impress. Girls know you want to make a good impression, so, there is no need for it. Don't ask her phone but rather their emails, it's less personal and means you don't want to put any pressure.
Good luck and don't be shy!

Answer 3

That depends a lot on where you are, and what you're doing.

Bar or restaurant.... buy you a drink?
School..... what do you think of this class... this teacher...?
Mall.... is this a good store?

Stuff like that... something related to what you and she are doing and where you are. That will give you a clue as to whether she is kind of interested or not. It also gives the two of you something in common to talk about.

From there on, if the chemistry is there, you won't have to work at it too much. But always the best way to talk to any other person is to ask them about themselves or their opinions....
just like on Yahoo Answers.

And you don't want to come on too strong at first... nothing like hello beautiful, where have you been all my life.... that just makes girls leery of you.

Answer 4

Smile before you ever say a word, then simply say hello & offer your name. If she's carrying a flute, or other instrument, ask her about music. If she's carrying a novel or magazine, inquire after what she reads. Basically, take in what information you can garner about her without asking to give you direction for your conversation.

Also, be sure to listen to her and this naturally flow into easy chatter. (I make that note because it's sometimes so easy to be relieved that she's talking to you in the first place, that your ears go deaf with the release of tension.)

Good luck, you'll be just fine. Relax, be yourself & don't be afraid to let her know who you are either.

Answer 5

Make sure she's single before you try starting anything! Girls already know why guys start up a conversation. If you try talking with a girl who isn't single, that could lead to trouble. (And even if she has no boyfriend, she might be gay or has a girlfriend.) You have to be careful before getting into anything these days. You could land in a world of sh!t, and if she has a watchful honey, forget about her.

Answer 6

Seriously, just say "hi" and be yourself. Ask her a lot of questions about herself. What school does she go to? What does she do for fun? If she has something interesting with her, like a book or a cell phone...comment on it. Or say something nice about her hair or her outfit. People like flattery. Smile and laugh a lot.

Answer 7

Introduce yourself, avoid staring. Be yourself. A girl has to like the "real" you. If you put up a front and she likes it then you have to maintain that front. No good.
If they don't like you for you, oh well, just move on. there plenty of fish in the sea.

Answer 8

dude seriously, all you need to do is go up to and say hi and ask a bunch of questions about her. show her that you are actually interested and not just trying to get laid. But just be you. She is more likely to be interested that way. Have confidence too, but show your fear sometoo. That sacred balance.

Answer 9

Introduce yourself to her. Be yourself and have a little chat. Ask if she'd like to hang out someone. If she would then get her number or give her yours.

Answer 10

Introduce yourself, smile, act a little shy (we like a challenge) don't fidget, ask for their number