2006-08-25 09:45:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i'm 14 and have been doing it for about 2 months... he is 17
2006-08-25 09:58:13 · update #1
Sorry for your news. How old are you? How long have you been dating? What do your parents feel about pre-maritial sex? About abortion? About adoption? Are you guys middle-class or better or have you just given your family huge financial worries? All of those questions and more have a bearing on how you should tell.
Please consider adoption, or abortion if you're not too far along, unless you are over 18 and able to provide a two-parent, stay-home mommy home for this child.
2006-08-25 09:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by cassandra 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all you need to make up your mind if you are ready to bring a child in this world and be able to not live on the sate for help. And what do YOU want to be when you get older. You would have to make time for the baby and your work and school, ect. Yes you are never ready for a baby. But you should of protected yourself better. And if he didn't try that means he won't care about you or the baby later on. Trust me you learn by your mistakes. Just think before you wind up hurting yourself in the long run.
2006-08-25 16:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by sxymama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was 19 when I got pregnant. I ended up taking my mom fishing and yelling it at her from about 100 feet away. giving me plenty of time to run. How ever she was very happy for me, and happy to be getting her first grandbaby. I told my boyfriend , now husband, in a slightly mean way. I took the HPT and it came out positive and I was crying so hard. He came to see what was wrong and I threw the test at him. I was not ready for a kid but he was so right then he asked me to marry him. we have been married for 3 years not and expecting a second child. just remember they may not take the news as bad as you think. I wasn't expecting to see another day after telling my mom. She's one of those people who insist on marrage for atleast a year the comes sex type of people. However, she was very happy, she didn't know my husband asked to marry him yet.
2006-08-25 16:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by Dark Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit them down tonight. "Tell them I am so sorry to tell you this but I am pregnant. Please help me." Asking for help will soften the blow and show how scared you are. Your parents are much stronger than you think. But tell them at once. The longer you wait the harder it will be. They will see it as you have been lying for all this time. As parents they will be harder on their self. Don't lie any longer. Also ask for forgivness constantly. Do not yell or fight say yes ma'am and no sir.
2006-08-25 17:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by angstayhomemom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about "I'm ruining my life.. I'm not old enough to even finish middle school let alone raise a baby. I can't work and will be on welfare the rest of my life because I couldn't keep my legs closed to my boyfriend that just wanted sex."
2006-08-25 17:18:35 · answer #5 · answered by Sadie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Tyler. Get your bf in your house when both parents are home, and ask them to sit down and calmly tell them that YOU AND BF are pregnant.
You should not have to go it alone, and the sooner the better.
DO IT TODAY.
2006-08-25 16:52:00 · answer #6 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should catch them at a calm time and don't just blurt it out in the middle of a fight. Its also easier if you do it in a public place sometimes because at home people can sometimes react very badly. You should just assume that they will be okay with it and who knows, maybe they will be happy!?
2006-08-25 16:48:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to to come right out and tell them as soon as possible because the longer you wait, the tougher it will be.
Welcome to the adult world where you have to be responsible for your actions!
2006-08-25 16:52:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your boyfriend first. get thing straight with him what you are going to do. Then both of you should go to your parents and sit them down and tell them and then tell them what you two are going to do...like money, house. Then tell his parents.
2006-08-25 16:52:38 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being honest is the best thing to do before you get to far along... i would tell your parents first to see what you wanna do about it and then tell your boyfriend
2006-08-25 16:50:10 · answer #10 · answered by ndanylevich01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋