Men only, please help a concern women.?

Question

I need to know what a man is experiecing when he is impotant ,
does he still feel senations even while he can't an get an erection
please help me to understand his mental, and emotional, and pyhcological state?

I wish it would help men to know that when a women truly loves a man she doesn't really care if he really can't make love as he use to. It's happeningto me and I just wish my man can be reasured knowing that what really matters to me is his well being, and happiness. As long as I have him in my life, in my heart, and in my arms thats all that matters

Note: His problem started when his prostate was removed because they found it cancerous.

Thank you all for your time, concern, and answers, I appreciate all of them.

Answer 1

It depends if it is psychological (in his head) or physiological (in his body).

If psychological, it could be any of a number of things he feeling -- guilt, fear, embarrassment, confusion (potentially about his own sexuality, but I don't want to over play that -- just because he can't have an erection doesn't mean he's gay).

If physiological, then he may be feeling all of those things too, but more than anything else he is probably feeling frustration and guilt.

Is this one man in particular? A lot of your question depends on his age.

If pre-17, then he is no doubt feeling very confused and concerned that he is a "real man" and needs to know that it is normal -- his body is still adjusting and growing. At this age there is a real legit reason for performance anxiety -- his only performances should be solo acts!

If 17 - 30 he is probably feeling very frustrated and may still question his manhood and vitality. No one at any age wants to go through that, but in particular at this age he would be feeling very inadequate. This can have a profound negative impact on his emotional state.

If 30 - 60 he is probably feeling very old (i.e., feeling like an , and it is more likely now that it is physiological, although it could be in his head or a result of performance anxiety. Still he should see a urologist at this age.

If 60+ he should have a comprehensive physical and evaluation by a urologist, as it is far more likely to be physiological.

As far as feeling sensations while he can't get erections, the answer is "it depends." If there is something medically wrong with him, he may have lost sensation there and that may cause or contribute to "ED" or erectile dysfunction. But more than likely he can still feel sensation and even climax while not erect.

Answer 2

I don't know what it's like to be impotent, but I would be surprised if the fellow didn't feel terrible about it. If you want to stay with him, surely you can become a very comforting influence in his life. I would avoid having children with him if I were you (unless he's impotent because of a severe and unnatural injury) because your children may have reproductive problems like impotence. Impotence is often treatable but I think that his feelings of inadequacy will stay with him in some way. Good luck!

Answer 3

I am a man and i have been that way forever - but its my body that will not allow me to do it - I have a medical problem that has prevented my growth since i was about 2 years old - in fact the computer i use was specially made for me - a doctor paid for it -
talk about emotinal and mental - it can get very mental when a pretty nurse with large breast is changing a diaper

Answer 4

there are no givens. some do, some don't. a man can ejaculate while flaccid (no erection required) so there are some feelings. the biggest down side on a mental level is feeling you are less that a man.