ok i just posted this a bit ago but i have more to say on it. ive been with my boyfriend for 2 months and im not sure if its gonna last. i want to do anything to make it last becuase i feel hes the only person i really have to do anything with right now, my best friends just moved so i dont really have any friends at school and now i found out that alin (my boyfriend) is goin to a different school. he said hes not sure how its gonna work with us at 2 diff. schools so we'll just see how it goes. i would do anything to stay with him. i feel like the only time im really happy is when im around him. yeah i know im young but i just lost 3 of my best friends because of there mom who goes back to her ex (who abuses her). so now they live with there father who gets a little too touchy feely with them. i worry about them and now i worry if alin will stay with me...what should i do?!?!
2006-08-25 09:22:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't get so caught up in a guy that you forget who you are. What do you like to do? What are your interest in life? Try speaking to the person that sits next to you in 3rd period. No that person can never replace the friends that you've alreay made but it doesn't hurt anything to make more friends.
2006-08-25 09:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by im2cute4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT....I SAY DONT....stay with someone just cuz u think they are the ony one for you, u feel better when your with them... get a job, join some clubs,get a hobby, STUDY, tell bf that your glad he's going to other school it'll give you time to find out if relationship is worth the time.... about ur friends being abused??? talk to them about it ,find out if you can help???? and for god's sake girl...start beleiving in yourself..be happy with YOU.. before being able to be happy with someone else....after all YOU come first when you get outta bed in the morning...then come's in the day and what or who is in it...go for the gusto..
2006-08-25 16:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by tami j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be open to meeting new people. Your boyfriend and your best friends aren't the only people in the world. Branch out girl! Explore! Live!
2006-08-25 16:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a councelor. see if that helps. i am not a professional and i reckon not many of the people on here are....sooooo, my advise is to see a councelor because it seems that there are more issues going on than just u and your bf.
btw, i believe what you are feeling is called 'codependency'.
2006-08-25 16:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋