You know what?! I am proud of you that you can admit the fact that you have a problem. You are already one step closer to making yourself a better person. Okay honey-you are 18 years old and there is some normalcy to what you are feeling. How you act on them is what will make you a bad person or not. I have a 4 year old son and I left him with my boyfriends 16 year old brother to babysit and he has a porno fetish.(I didn't know this at the time or I wouldn't have left my son there) He was into porno sooooo bad and I feel bad because I never knew that until it was to late but anyways-he ended up sexually molesting my 4 year old son! No joke! I called the police as soon as my son told me and the cops went and questioned my boyfriends brother and they did a whole bunch of tests on my son to make sure that he was okay. But anyways it really sucks to have had that happen to my son because for the rest of his life he'll be tainted and it's not his fault! Needless to say my son is NOT allowed near the 16 year old ever again for ANY reason!!!!! I want to strangle this kid for what he did to my son but I legally can't! But because nobody helped him with his problem he ended up acting out on it and it's a real shame that my son had to be the victim! My boyfriend won't talk to his brother anymore and he is never allowed in our house! It caused a lot of family wounds that will NEVER heal. So when I tell you that I am proud that you can admit that you know why I say that! Now your best bet is to get into some counsling if you really don't want to be like this. They will asses your problem and maybe get you started on some therepy so you can learn other outlets instead of what you are doing now. The hardest part is for you to talk to someone about this. But if you want to get better and get some help then that is the first step! You will work through this and things will get better for you! Just PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't act out on your feelings towards anyone to hurt them. Girls don't like to be treated like a toy! More often than not they want a man that is going to be a MAN! Just always remember that if YOU are not happy with yourself then you will NEVER be happy with anyone else! Keep me posted and good luck to you! If you need someone to talk to you can e-mail me sofina_83@yahoo.com
2006-08-25 09:25:34
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answered by sofina_83 2
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Seriously, no one is trying to help!!! You know it does depend on what your definition of pervert is. There are lots of sexual thoughts we all have, but that doesn't mean, we as humans are perverts. Now if it is about small children or something like that, I would say yes, that is being a pervert, or acting on certain thoughts...many other things can be categorized as being a pervert. But without more information, it is hard to say tho.
2006-08-25 16:21:52
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answered by no_doubt! 5
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I know it sounds odd, but for most people, they find that when they stop looking at porn and R rated material, they stop masturbating, they consciously try to think cleaner thoughts, and they go out and become really physically tired (among other things), after a while they perverted thoughts go away. But it takes time, effort, patience and an abrupt end to all things perverted.
2006-08-25 16:14:21
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answered by truthwillshine 2
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Step away from the computer and shut it off!!!
Different answers for pervert, your 18 and male, are you sure you just dont have a healthy curiosity? Go out with friends, go to the gym, keep your body active
2006-08-25 16:13:15
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answered by Amy S 4
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The question is, What do you do that you think makes you a pervert? You may think that something you are doing means your a pervert but it might just be something that is relatively normal. Your question is too vauge to give a good answer.
2006-08-25 16:14:03
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answered by Danika T 2
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You are what you are, and there is nothing you can do to stop this... just think, it could be a lot worse, you could be on yahoo answers with a name DEAD BABIES and making fun them as well... (this is really happening!) You see, there is nothing wrong with having a large sex drive, you are 18 and in your PEAK. I say enjoy yourself and as long as it doesn't hurt anyone, you are good to go!
2006-08-25 16:20:00
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answered by Cutelilminxy 5
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Every time a perverted thought enters your mind. Flick yourself in the balls, not too hard but hard enough to teach yourself some gentlemanly manner
2006-08-25 16:11:59
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answered by Anonymous
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yes, follow mny receipe:
1.-get a piece of wood of about 5 inches long, 2 wide.
2.- rub some saliva on it.
3.- grab your ***
4.- stick it in there
5.- sit down for 1/2 hour and spin.
6.- you are now cure
2006-08-25 16:15:10
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answered by urubu 1
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What makes you think you are a pervert??
2006-08-25 16:13:05
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answered by Anonymous
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CALL A HELP LINE TO FIND OUT WHERE YOU CAN GO FOR HELP.
2006-08-25 16:11:27
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answered by Anonymous
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