twice my age. not only did he lie ti me and say he was going with his boss he accually called in to work and he never misses work although he denies it being true I really have no proof other than the friend that told me what can I do to make him tell the truth
2006-08-25 09:05:14 · 10 answers · asked by brina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Without trust, you have nothing. Even if he did not do what you think he did, you obviously have reason to question him...to not trust him. It's time to move on.
2006-08-25 09:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have tried asking him but you feel that he is lying to you so go to the ex. Just ask her if he and she went to the coast for the day and ask around at his job if he was there or not that day. Trust is a serious issue in a relationship and without it I can tell you that it won't last. If its true then consider leaving him or let him know that you don't feel that you can trust him anymore. I will pray for you on this.
2006-08-25 16:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing..once a man decides to lie he will stick to his lie! You could have all the proof in the world and he'll still say "wasn't me!"
If you have reason not to trust him, if he is not being honest with you....break up with him. (but first ask yourself if you are being paranoid or if you are sure you can trust this friend that is providing you with this information about your man!!)
2006-08-25 16:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by Natural_Woman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL YOU KNOW WHAT THEY SAY OLD IS GOLD. maybe she gives him what your not, and to make him tell you the truth?? em mm. well . emm i don't know,, short of a revolver too the head. then he might lie and said he did, and you'd blow his brains out.. and if he was telling the truth . and you didn't believe him , possible you'd do the same thing, poor guy can't win. if you can't trust him, break it off, it'll never work, find someone who you can love and trust
2006-08-25 16:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by valda54 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. If you are going to be in a relationship with someone and wonder what he is up to and who he is with then it's better not to be in that relationship at all.
There are ways that you can find out.... check out his cell phone and see who he has called. If he says no and he does not want you to look on his bill then get out as soon as you can.
2006-08-25 16:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by anisarkisyan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he lied to you your not gonna be able to trust him again and if your friend said she saw him then believe her but if you want it out of him just tell him someone saw you with her and I believe her so tell me right now were you with her and if he denies it just tell him that your gonna go to her and ask her yourself and then if he says no why would you wanna do that just tell him because I can't get the truth out of you but I will out of her.
2006-08-25 16:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to breath and think about evey thing he said his action and what type of person he really are think back of signs you might of miss and if you fell like he lie you would know if you really know your parrten you should know whe he lie and when he not and if you still need answer seek some one who knows about realtionships and question unknow she is great i talk to her alot and she be right on the money.
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2006-08-25 16:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by joyoflove2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have him show you his paystub to see if he actually missed the day of work. BUSTED!!!
2006-08-25 16:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop the bum. if he'll lie about that, he'll lie about anything and everything.
2006-08-25 16:14:03 · answer #9 · answered by Robert A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tie him up and beat it out of him..
O yea, if you get lonely I will be there.LOL
2006-08-25 16:09:49 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋