If this was you: If You had just came from the doctor finding out you MIGHT have some kind of diesease such as chlmydia(spell cheack) but the doctors dont quite have your results yet. you have to wait up untill four days to get them. You gave your virginity to this person and has been truly faithfull to them as long as ya'll was together, 7 months now. This person is your first love and you just knew that deep inside, your partner was faithfull to you and couldnt nobody tell you any different.
How would you come at them and ask them what have they been doing behind your back? How would you feel?
Would you come to them like an adult all calm about it. or would you come at them very angry and violent?
2006-08-25 08:41:04 · 31 answers · asked by Tbaby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
1st of all pray and ask God that you don't have some kind of disease or something worse like AIDS. You should always protect yourself even if you think you are in love and that he is the one. If it is true that you have a STD then, you should let him know that you went to the clinic for a check up and found out that you have a STD and let him know that he is the only person that you have been with. Please, be calm about the matter because when being told that you have a STD you never know where his mind could be or if he will become violent. You may even want someone that you have told about the situation to be there with you when you tell him. Let him know that he is the only man that you have been with and that he was your 1st and that you think he should be tested as well to be on the safe side. Remember as hard as it may seem stay calm. Ask him about other girls in his life and if he is cheating on you. If the test is negative thats good. Let me share something with you: we are our worst enemies because our hearts want what it wants when it wants it. Meaning: we have to be patient with love because even though we think sometimes that this is the one it could just be the thought of being in love that you are in love with. If your test are positive I encourage you to tell your parents and get treated if possible. I will be praying for you that you don't have a disease. Hopefully after this you will wait til you are absolutely ready or you will wait on your husband. Its always a good idea to find out about your partner before you have sex with them and hopefully he will be honest with you.
2006-08-25 09:08:15 · answer #1 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say anything until you get the results. If you in fact have an std it is obvious he cheated. Being violent will get you nowhere but I would be extremely angry. I would break up with him on the spot and tell him he's a dirty whore. Next time USE CONDOMS NO MATTER WHAT. You got away easy this time, next time it could be Aids. Its unfortunate but you cant trust people. Aids kills and other std's stay around for life. Protect yourself from that dirty guy.
2006-08-25 08:46:37 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 23:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by banowski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible that the person you were with was infected with an STD before meeting you/having intercourse with you. Before going crazy and cutting this person loose, find out all the facts. They might have been a crazy himbo before they met you and are now settled down. In that case you both need to go to a clinic and get treated. Get counseling from your doctor on how long certain STDs can go dormant in men without having noticable symptoms. If this guy had it and infected your knowingly, it is literally a crime.
2006-08-25 08:48:53 · answer #4 · answered by themonkeytookmypants 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well of course what for the results. You could be over reacting. Then if you do in fact have a problem. Go to him and have a heart to heart talk. Tell him you went to the doctor. Don't be accusatory, (a public bathroom could be the cause). Just tell him and if he sees you hurting he will probably fess up and tell you the truth (whatever that maybe). If you still suspect something have him get checked. If he won't, dump his ***.
2006-08-25 08:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by rancherogirl351 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, wait until you get your results, you must be having some problems, that is why you are going to a doctor,
After the results are in, that is when you need to sit down and talk. any time you have a problem, you have to handle it in a mature way, Getting angry is the childish way of dealing with it. and getting violent, means you have a problem.
2006-08-25 09:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait for the results, but if you have chlamidia, he gave it to you, doesn't mean that he was screwing around on you necesssarily.
ask your gyno how long it can lay dormant in the other person or if it would have to have been a recent thing.
Go from there. I'd definately discuss it with him once I got the results, and would want to know if he is only with you.
ONly you know your heart, but if he didn't care enuff to bring you home a disease, what will it be next? herpes? aids?
good luck
2006-08-25 09:00:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, I'd wait for the results. Then, find out if it's something you can get any other way. If not, I would break up with him without even telling him why. Just flat out tell him that you don't care for him that way anymore and you want to move on to bigger and better things. Let him feel hurt without ever knowing that he broke your heart. Don't give him the satisfaction.
2006-08-25 08:49:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it was not your partner,could be you just sat somewhere that was infected by some other person that did not clean up,have heard a good place for that to happy is in er rooms where some don't have time to clean right,or some bathrooms.check really good before you blame the other,do you home work will,you could lose someone you love for know reason,think first
2006-08-25 08:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by tay3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be hard to keep to myself, but be cool and wait till you know for sure, Then confront him about it. Be prepared for him to deny it. He might try to flip the script and blame it on you. If he lied to you before, he'll lie to you again. After that, get rid of the bum and move on. Next time you might wanna be a little more selective when choosing a partner!
2006-08-25 08:51:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋