2006-08-25 08:33:24 · 5 answers · asked by ladyB 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Of course not.You should wait till marriage.If he wanted 2 marry you ,then u should know that he loves you.Because marriage is not only sex(it's a home,a family,responsibility...etc).So if he chose to take this responsibility,then he loves you.But if he chose sex ,then he likes you and not 4 who ur but 4 ur body.Rapping happens 4 sex,not love.
2006-08-25 14:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by Beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the situation. With one of my exes, the reason we ended up dating was because we tumbled into the sack. But then again, we were good friends for 2 years prior to this and it just kind of happened. We dated for 2 years after this before going our separate ways. Others I have waited for several months, some it has been a matter of weeks. Considering that my relationships usually end up lasting at least a year or longer, it really does depend on the situation. Just because you give in to desire early on doesn't preclude the development of an emotional bond between yourself and another person. I wouldn't recommend having sex early on with everyone you date, but there are instances where it won't destroy everything.
However, if you do not feel ready or have any doubts about sleeping with someone relatively soon after starting the relationship, then by all means wait. Keep in mind that there are two people involved in a relationship and if one person is not as comfortable or willing to get intimately involved early on, then the other should have enough respect and caring to accomodate that. It is something that you can discuss and work together on towards a common goal. The one thing no one should ever feel while in a relationship is pressure to do something that they don't want to.
But do be open with your partner and discuss it with them. Communication is one of the keystones to successful relationships.
2006-08-25 16:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi no not as soon as you meet, but about 3 months is fine, it is a big part in a relationship and if you are really attracted to each other then it makes the realtionship 100% better, dont do it if you arent serious about the bloke as it could be awkward, but if you think your in love and are still together after 3 months then go ahead, but make sure you use something,
2006-08-25 15:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Me and my boyfriend waited 3 months to have sex. I think that if you have sex too soon, it will ruin the relationship because it will all be phsyical and not enough emotional.
2006-08-25 15:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If he's worth it he'll respect your decision. Always get an STD test and if he won't then you know he's dirty.
2006-08-25 15:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by GIngin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋