my frend is completely heart broken after her boyfrend broke up with her...and now everytime she is looking at the things her bf had gifted her...she cries a lot...and i dont like to see her that way..so once when she wasnt at home..i threw all those things...and now she is mad at me...
did i make a mistake or its okay??
2006-08-25 08:24:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
hey one day you'll both look back and have a good laugh..besides she's only hurting herself..you did her a favor
2006-08-25 08:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by ♣suzie Q♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, this doesn't belong in Entertainment...
Second, yeah...you made a mistake. You had no right to discard those things. At best you might have hidden them away and then checked out how she felt before actually tossing them.
It was up to her to decide what to do with those things. She may have put them away a while, then had them down the road for mementos. You threw away part of her life.
2006-08-25 15:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not okay. Doing that was very presumptuous. Who are you to decide your friends personal possessions belong in the trash? People feel emotions strongly after a break-up; they are supposed to. You created an emotions tornado and put yourself smack dab in the middle of it. Your friend may stay mad at you because she has an additional source on which to focus all those strong emotions.
2006-08-25 15:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by Caffeinated 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u mad a big mistake, first of all u should have asked her if she whanted u to.
i think that u should say that your sorry and did not mean to do it,
but also tell her why u did it.
dont weary she will recover from the brake up and move on in the mean time try to fix the you r friendship
2006-08-25 15:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by JZ103 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea now she has no memory of him, that was a tad overboard u coulda helped her in a different way, taking her out, meeting new ppl...anything to have fun. U just took away somn that she cant get back, but she will get over it after a while....just give her time. and NEVER do that again.
2006-08-25 15:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats waaaaay overboard on your part!! You have to let a person grieve and make amends with herself at her own pace; on her own time. You took matters into your own hands without permission. Your motives are admirable, in that you care so much for your friend, but that was a bit much.
2006-08-25 15:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by JusticeManEsq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone did that to me. Old girlfriends stuff, New girlfriend threw it out. I got over it. I still wish I had it sometimes though. That was 20 years ago.
2006-08-25 15:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by Myke BoDean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think you did make a mistake, those are her things and sooner or later she would of gotten over the loss of her boyfriend...
2006-08-25 15:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you commited robbery/theift/unlawful misappropriation of property & you lost sight of the boundries. Your friendship will be able to be repaired when you make regrets to your friend & your friend accepts your apology & forgives you. You must never take anything that isn't yours & you must recognise that it's not your responsibility to make decisions for your friend, only advise.
2006-08-25 15:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think you did make a mistake, those are her things and sooner or later she would of gotten over the loss of her boyfriend...
That's what I think???
2006-08-25 15:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by Frances M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, big mistake. Never mess with anyone's stuff, even if it does break their heart. Believe me on this one.
2006-08-25 15:27:18 · answer #11 · answered by shegothebomb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋