Last week, at a concert, my wife was waiting outside a bathroom for her sister, and a young guy starts working her (she's hot). He asks to check out her cell, and proceeds to call his..so he will have her number. Despite her pleas about being married, much older and a mother of 3, this guy calls & texts her all week. She was flattered at the time, but now she feels harrassed.
Are guys getting this brash out there?
2006-08-25 08:13:50 · 12 answers · asked by hellsbells 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is your wife's fault to have given out her cell number. This is the consequence. Don't do it next time. She's a married woman. So many married people don't know out to set boundaries these days....
2006-08-25 08:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't you kick his butt??? Why did she give up her cell in the first place to a complete stranger??? That's weird too? Guess she loves attention - better pay more attention to her sounds like she's not old enough to be married or a mother. Could potentially be a risk for problems in the future. Being "Hot" has nothing to do with it either. You can still be "Hot" and still have enough sense to say, "Hey, I'm a married woman and a mother , Get lost" "No!!!, you can't have my phone - I'll report you to security". Come on now!
Wake - up my dear!!! That entire deal smells bad to me!
2006-08-25 15:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys only develop relationships from women who are involved. This isn't his fault, but the fact that he knows she is married and is still hitting on her, that's a problem. It happened once to my Grandma, oddly, but he was a Mexican and was probably just looking for a way to stay in the country. She threatened to have him deported. Guys aren't getting brash, there are just a few of them who don't know how to legitimately find love.
2006-08-25 15:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by minstrel_of_munificence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did your wife let him get far enough to check out her cell? I think she was flattered and wanted to see if he would call, hoping he would so she would be reassured of her attractiveness. He probably thought she was easy - being older and interacting with him. Dangerous game she's playing.
2006-08-25 15:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys have always been brash. Why did she give her cell to some guy she doesn't know ?? That is the question you should be asking.
2006-08-25 15:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys aren't getting any brasher... Your wife exercised poor judgement by talking to a psycho. Not her fault, everyone makes mistakes. Have the cell # changed, this guy is a stalker.
2006-08-25 15:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I think this probably always happened - you're just reaching the age where you know older woman in that position - whereas before your social circle was perhaps younger. There always has been and always will be some odd balls in society.
2006-08-25 15:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did the guy get physical, and forcibly take her phone from her? If he did then report him for assault. If not, then you need to praise your wife more often, tell her how hot she is, etc.
2006-08-25 15:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by Echo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they are. I would suggest you calling him and telling him to knock it off. Plus tell your wife to not give out her cell.
2006-08-25 15:18:21 · answer #9 · answered by tpurtygrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to her workplace with an obnoxiuolsy big bouquet of flowers. makes sure that he sees you kissing her passionately.
As you leave, you tell him, wass up cat? any good video games our there?
That would do the trick
Good luck
2006-08-25 15:18:01 · answer #10 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋