My friend works at a hotel and met a man there.
She is 14. He is 48. And she tells me all about him and how she loves him and how he's sooo sweet and nice to her. She thinks she is in love. For all i know, she could be!
But i'm scared for her. She knows that, but ignores my requests to stop attempting a romantic relationship with him! He's MARRIED, for god's sake!
Her future "plan" is to somehow get him single again, get him to love her, and marry him. Not only is that effing impossible, it would be morally WRONG if she succeded.
What should I say to her?
2006-08-25 08:13:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would tell her to give it 4 years. Let her turn 18, let her tell him to get rid of his marriage, and see if she wants to be with him, which she won't, and I guarantee he will still be married. I was in a similar situation, and that's what my best friend told me and I never even thought about contacting him after I turned 18.
2006-08-25 08:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 21:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by lirette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 14. that is so mess up.. I only like guys that are 14-18. Not 19-100 guys. Tell ur friend to watch what kind of guys she gose out wit..
2006-08-25 08:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I.m scared for your friend. Can you discuss with her parents. Could save her from a lot of danger
2006-08-25 08:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by mjdp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is just wrong. Tell her its wrong, she would be screwing up a marriage that could be a happy and long one. If she doesn't pay attention,then she will pay the consequences.
2006-08-25 08:18:15 · answer #5 · answered by Ronald. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the police on that pervert. Your friend is in trouble and is being manipulated.
2006-08-25 08:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by nuclear_science 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww gross just leave her she'll get over it. are you sure its 43?! sorry ill stop.
get her old crush and ask him hey my friends in troble can you be my boy friend to kick her in earth again? she'll get jelous. then she will want him!!
2006-08-26 03:16:04 · answer #7 · answered by Kitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her that he's old enough to be her father, and that if she marries him, he'll be 62 when she's thirty.
2006-08-25 08:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by she who is awesome 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her to chill before she end up on jerry springer LOL
2006-08-25 08:16:52 · answer #9 · answered by MsNic 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she needs to get herself out bfore she gets too deep
2006-08-25 08:20:11 · answer #10 · answered by ♥LiL MiZ THANG ♥ 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋