My husband hasn't giving me a BIG reason to distrust him but it's little things like he works 10.5 hours a day but gets paid for 9.... he said he doesn't get paid for lunch adn breaks. I can see that.
His first day of work he came home i asked him do you work with nice people he said yeah the lady in the office is kinda cute.... I got mad and didn't talk to him for hours.
but just the other day he was giveing our 9 month old son a bath and I saw marks like nail marks on his back so I asked him about it. he said it was from work.
sometime when I call his cell phone it said he is on the phone leave a message
and when it comes time to ckeck his email it has to be done when I am either putting the baby to bed or I am in the bath
2006-08-25
08:01:20
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his drive is not in the 10.5 hours he works from 7am to 530 pm he works 25 mins for the house but leaves for 545am and gets home after 630 pm
2006-08-25
08:14:52 ·
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talk to him about it
2006-08-26 08:32:38
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answered by christy1302001 2
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Can't say for sure but I'd be watching him very closely not so close that he catches on though! Proof is what you need to know for sure. Good luck! The nail marks could have even come from him, really! I've done it to myslef! I don't get paid for my lunch and I check my e-mail at work and shut our enternet off at home b/c it was a bill we do not use!
2006-08-25 08:17:18
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answered by sophia_of_light 5
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I think your imagination is running away with you and you don't have any concrete evidence that shows he would be doing anything. Do you think that 10.5 hours might include his drive to and from work? The more you try to control someone, the more you will push them away.
2006-08-25 08:07:54
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answered by Anonymous
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Don't be so suspicious. Communicate with your husband how you are feeling and what fears you are experiencing. Hopefully he will put your mind at ease. Mistrust in a relationship will kill it for sure, slowly maybe but it will eventually die out. Communication is number 1 in any relationship so have an open and honest dialogue with your mate and I wish you all the best.
2006-08-25 08:05:43
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answered by crazylegs 7
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Oh he's hiding sumthing. But dont jump into conclusions yet. N dont try to talk him about it cuz he will deny it. They all do. Try to gather up evidence first and then u could confront him about it. But all i could tell u dont drive urself crazy bcuz its not worth it. What u have to do is show up at his job without him knowing. But try to use a good excuse. Dont let him notice that u're distrusting him bcuz he will use that against u.
2006-08-25 08:11:43
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answered by LADYQUEEN 1
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Well, he could be doing something, but based on the evidence you've presented so far, I'd say you need to lighten up some. Maybe you should plan to meet him for lunch one day.
2006-08-25 08:31:51
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answered by Jeffrey S 6
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yes....big time to question that, get a program that records what anyone does on the computer...surprise him at work during one of these breaks or lunch
2006-08-25 08:05:18
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answered by scarlet_bat 4
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it could be he likes his privacy or he's cheating on u, u know if he's cheating , although it does sound a bit strange u can always figure out his pass words for his email accounts then read for ur self.
2006-08-25 08:14:46
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answered by rachel m 3
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maybe he's doing something on the side. not sure. sounds kinda shady to me.
2006-08-25 08:07:01
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answered by erk m 3
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thats all stupid stuff, get real proof before you acuse him..
2006-08-25 08:06:21
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answered by Tim 4
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