Why can't I find true friends..Its so hard to find someone who knows the true meaning of the word friendship these days. I am 23 years old and a college Senior and I am at the stage of my life that I am longing for a good female friend! Is there anyone else who feels the same way?
2006-08-25 07:45:30 · 15 answers · asked by lrkarey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am a very god-fearing, honest, considerate and great person to be around! Everyone's situation is different I don't get out much, I don't do the partying or clubbing thing. I go to a private college where there is only negative and immature people here. I thought I might get to know someone on here, but some people are so negative...
2006-08-25 07:56:09 · update #1
True friends are hard to find, and I agree totally. Maybe a girlfriend isn't the way to go. Maybe a guy friend would be what you need. Or maybe you are a little shy and people just think you are stuck up for not talking to other people. Get involved in things you enjoy and there will be people there that enjoy the same things as you. You have to listen to your conscience when making choices, even with friends. Not everyone has a best friend. I suggest finding someone who is like you and lives out the meaning of friendship.
2006-08-25 07:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by sweethearted x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already have two, your parents. many people don't have true friends so don't worry.
You can IM me if you like id44333@hotmail.com on MSN or AIM. i'm fairly popular and also attended a private college. i don't go to bars or clubbing either. though i'll tell you up front that there are a few secrets that nobody will ever know, but other than that, i'm very open.
the way i get by without a true friend is I identify what people are good at and build a relationship around that. For example, if i wanted to play tennis, i'll talk to Maurice; if I wanted to talk about relationship, i'll to one of my girls; if I wanted help on study, i'll ask one of the expert friends in that field. I don't have a single true friend (in reality, nobody is perfect and can always help you, even almighty God has failed some of my friends), but I do have a broad social network that collectively is "true", so to speak.
if you are looking for maturity, usually the people who studies hard or older people are more mature. if you still having problems finding people, try going to public library, parks, or go to the libraries of another school, preferably a highly rated one. there is also nothing wrong with talking with elderly.
2006-08-25 14:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by erk m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I just posted a similar Q ....... I know I am a good person and I bet you are an awesome person ......All I can tell ya is it' s like the bitchier girls I know have tons of friends and the nice ones are not in the loop.........I wish I copuld find a real friend I can talk to n share things with.... am outta college myself but I feel for you, school is hard enough but I would love to chat anytime girl E me and maybe we can be there for each other!
2006-08-25 14:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by crownvic64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your asking too much of others, first you have to be one who's willing to go the extra mile to make the friendship. You put yourself out there, you will be rewarded with like kindness. People in general, do not take the effort to keep in touch or make the phone call.
2006-08-25 15:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by sideways 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True Friends are very hard to find but don't worry most friends when you get them there never true anyway! U should really focus on something else! U feel Me!
2006-08-25 14:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by Love Hurts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friends are very rare. When you find one, you keep him / her.
A true friend does not always have to be of the same sex. I have had female friend that we were able to shower together, drink together, went streaking together, and have all kinds of fun, and tell each other our secrets, but never had sex.
2006-08-25 14:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by Just Another Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,there is.Until pretty recently I thought I had found a true friend but I was disappointed to found out I was wrong...I guess true friends dont come easy..
2006-08-25 14:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by M@ry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i dont feel like that.
but is it your personality? Try being a little bit nicer and talk to other females and say omg i love ur shoes where did you get them and im sure she'll be nice to you and start getting buddy buddy with her find out if she's the one you want to be friends with and if not keep talking to her and find other girls to be a bff with but be nice and complament them im sure they will be nice to you!!
2006-08-25 14:49:53 · answer #8 · answered by Tayy Tayy <33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can't say why u can't find a friend but i can help you not feel has lonely has u think the reason why you don't have a true friend his becuase u haven't opened you're heart to it yet u keep repeling people away but i repeat that's what i think
2006-08-25 14:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
here a tip don't look for the popular ones.look for the ones who treats their other Friends good or that don't talk bad words a lot.
2006-08-25 14:52:14 · answer #10 · answered by Yeppy92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋