I just moved in with my boyfriend. niether of us have lived with a partner before. What are some way that we can keep the excitement in our relationship even though we see each other everyday? What are some ways that we can keep from getting frustrated at the little things niether of us saw before we moved in together?
2006-08-25 07:45:23 · 12 answers · asked by krys 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
1st..make romantic nights every now and the
2nd..have a completley seperate life from him..diff activities and diff freinds,,,
soo he wont get board.
3rd give him space for his freinds and life
2006-08-25 07:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by lollypop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie, I know what you mean! Believe me! Some ways to keep it fun and exciting.... 1.) Little cute love notes in his lunch for work or briefcase. Nothing long and not a letter. Just a note that says I love You or something like that. 2.) If he has a briefcase or something, take a couple sexy pics of yourself, not nude, and put one in his briefcase. 3.) Call each other. Better yet, take your cell phone and call him from the next room and talk dirty to him. Get him turned on and then go into the room and strip for him. 4.) To keep from getting frustrated with each other, don't feel the need to do everything together. Remeber your friends. Keep up those relationships. Try to have a girl night once a month and encourage him to have a boy month.
I hope some of these help you. But remember, use your imagination. Men love that. Plus, you know what you are comfy with so go with that. With age comes the inability to really worry about what others thing of you and you know how sexy you are. :)
2006-08-25 14:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by tiffany27pa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You, don't say how old you are, both of you. In the beginning you have to learn to share the same space for two persons. But if both of you really love each other. It's a good thing, to talk about each other likes. And, give each other a space, when you feel friction. My wife and I, we have problems, like all marriages. But we don't argue, we don't talk all day. But we never go to bed angry. We are hitting 40 years of marriage!
2006-08-25 15:00:20 · answer #3 · answered by alfonso 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out. I have done this before. Our relationship suffered and you end up taking each other for granted. You have so much "life" yet to live with each other don't stifle it yet, let it grow.
2006-08-25 14:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid, it is going to be inevitable no matter how hard you try to avoid it. The key word is toleration and not letting little things get to you (both of you).
2006-08-25 14:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by dot&carryone. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key. Leave love notes around for him to find. This will tell if you guys can make it or not. Good Luck!
2006-08-25 14:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the house work naked, but not the cooking oil splatter hurts.
2006-08-25 14:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by captianpr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk it out and understand that each of u have pet peeves that the other might not like...
2006-08-25 14:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the same things you use to when you and him wasn't living togther
2006-08-25 14:54:42 · answer #9 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to relax if you can't do this then you need to move out
2006-08-25 14:47:53 · answer #10 · answered by Not Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋