he and i have a 7yr old together, his wife has a three yr old and they now have a 5 month old together... just wondering why everyone thinks this is weird.
2006-08-25 07:36:47 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
LOL!! i'm in college full time and yes we all do get along well and it was the wife's idea!!
2006-08-25 07:44:26 · update #1
People woud think it's weird, because it is weird.
2006-08-25 07:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by Earthling 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship wasn't strong enough for the two of you to agree to attempt to maintain the legal agreement of marriage, but you're now amicable enough to share the same roof after a divorce and a remarriage?
While on the one hand I find it commendable that the three of you can live in the same residence with civility (I'm assuming this, of course), I find it extremely unhealthy.
You and your ex chose to call it quits and should exist as such. Your presence in their home does not allow for a healthy relationship to ensue between your ex and his new wife... or between your 7 year old and the new step-mom. If you wanted the shelter, protection and friendship that goes along with what your ex is offering... then you should have maintained him as your husband.
If your ex offered you a place to stay in light of challenging times, I think that was very kind of him, and very tolerant of his new wife. On the other hand, I again say that, for your CHILD'S sake, you should find your feet as soon as possible and move on. For BOTH of your sakes.
2006-08-25 07:49:32 · answer #2 · answered by A Designer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is completely weird and I suggest you save your pennies and get out of there. No good can come from that situation for long. You , your ex, and his new wife may get along now but things will change.
2006-08-25 07:40:52 · answer #3 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah this is definately an awkward situation. Instead of living with them maybe you should try to move into your own place. People think its weird because it looks like a case of polygamy or something. Usually when people are ex-spouses its for a reason (maybe they don't want to be around eachother anymore). Who knows, live your dream.
2006-08-25 07:42:58 · answer #4 · answered by Denise W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your EX for some reason right? This usually involves a separation... So yes this is an unusual situation or let's put it bluntly It is VERY weird! Good luck though.
2006-08-25 07:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ jojo ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't totally unheard of, but it could be a bit confusing for the children. Your Ex has a good heart!
I would work toward getting out on your own, and getting on with life. However, if it works for everyone, then who am I to say?
2006-08-25 07:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOw. OK most people who have kids together and then later break up can't be in the same room...much less live together. And most new wives don't let women their husbands have selpt with spend the night...Get it?
And this is why you are STILL single.
2006-08-25 07:43:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm surprised his wife is putting up with it.
If you all get along really well and are like best friends then it isn't weird... but it's rare that she wouldn't hate you.
2006-08-25 07:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by kenny_the_bomb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, Hey Cheese-it Boy....you're the fuc*ing hosebag, got it. And second, you really need to move out an establish a life of your own. Unless there is some unmentioned force thats keeping you from moving, you need to re-invent yourself.
2006-08-25 07:41:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is creepy u should not be livin wit ur ex!U should relive ur life even though u have
a 7 yr old.Buy a house or apartment and tell him he could visit her!Duh:[
2006-08-25 07:42:24 · answer #10 · answered by Natalie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is weird....and......i would really b scared that there would b hanky panky in the middle of the night......but.....my nephew and his girl were considering rooming with his x and her man cause they have 4 children together and neither parents r stable enough to take care of 4 kids...everyone thinks its crazy but for the kids sake...they r willing to try to avoid the grandma from taking them....they r very young parents and crazy and willing to do whatever for their children....good luck and no hanky panky
2006-08-25 07:58:31 · answer #11 · answered by mspain719 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋