My one friend has a 6 month boyfriend and is always with him. I never see her, no-one but this boy does. My other best friend is horrible about this boy, and my two best friends always stand on each others toes. I understand where they are both coming from. But what can i do?
2006-08-25 07:27:59 · 7 answers · asked by lucy_goose 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
there is nothing that you can do except hope that they resolve their problems wit each other
2006-08-25 08:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by ♥LiL MiZ THANG ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's a hard one, first off, trio's of girls are hard to handle. I would first, call and make a date with your friend who has a boyfriend and say "hey I wanna hang out with you we haven't had any real quality "whatever your first inital is" "and "her first inital is" like for my best friend and me, it's T&E Time! And during that time no phone calls from boys, they can leave messages, no texting to other friends, just hanging out getting to know you again convo! It works really well, My best friend I have been doing that since middle school and were both out of college know. It works, you just have to have a willing friend who sees that no matter what, friends are what really matter, not a boyfriend who won't be around in another 3 months. Ok as for your other friend, Don;t hang out with them both at the same time and if she talks smack about your other friend to you just say nicely "I realize you don't like her very much and that's ok, but please realize that she is my friend and I care about our friendship so I don't want to hear any negative things about her anymore." If she can't understand that, maybe you should re-think your trio of friends. Good luck and I hope this helps!
2006-08-25 07:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by Ellie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try hanging out with new people. I understand that they are your best friends but it seems to me that they are ignoring you and they don't care about you that much. Friendship should come before a relationship.
2006-08-25 07:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by simpleplan0013 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do... Your friends relationship is fairly new... Let her be.. She will come around.... Be there for her when she needs you.
2006-08-25 07:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by lilkin_kingboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do... Your friends relationship is fairly new... Let her be.. She will come around.... Be there for her when she needs you.
2006-08-25 07:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by Torres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell them both that they are equal and that you don't want to get in the middle of their problems.
2006-08-25 07:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by Gabs2Much 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get new friends
2006-08-25 10:35:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋