2006-08-25 07:21:36 · 10 answers · asked by john_0502000 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Girlfriend NO NEVER!!!!
Wife as long as she's not a gold digger it would be o.k. - Otherwise if she is a gold digger NO Never and divorce her A.S.A.P!
2006-08-25 08:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.
If it's your girlfriend, then no, not yet. You wouldn't want a girl marrying you for your saving... but if it's your wife and she married you without knowing about these saving and you can trust her immensely, then yes you should tell her. After all, a marriage is a two way street, be open & tell all.
2006-08-25 14:30:13 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get married, you should not keep anything from your spouse. Feelings or finances. Things like that can create footholds for the devil to get in and begin to tear down your marriage. Abraham kept God's Word about Sarah bearing a child in her old age from her and she wound up embarrassing him by laughing at the revelation later before God. Rebeccah was told by God that her twin would rule over the older when they were born and she didnt tell her husband Isaac. The result was a lifetime of misplaced favoritism on Isaac's part for the older child. All that said, if you want to ensure you dont set your marriage up for things that lead to deceit I encourage you to be faithful in all areas...finances included. As for a girlfriend...I'd say you dont have to...only because thats not your wife, nor should you be living like you are, if you are not.
God Bless you and keep you...
2006-08-25 14:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wife, yes. She has a right to know. Your girlfriend, it depends. If you're living together and sharing bills and everything else, than I'd say yes. But if you aren't, only if you want to.
2006-08-25 14:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money is not a subject that should be a secret when you are married. She IS your wife, and ANY assets that belong to either, belong to both.
2006-08-25 15:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GF- No
Wife -yes because you guys should know what kind of financial situatuion you are in. That doesn't mean she needs access to it.
2006-08-25 15:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by tpurtygrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife, yes, as it is hers as well. Your girlfriend, no.
2006-08-25 14:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are married to this woman then yes. if she ever finds out that you've been keeping it secret then she could wonder what else you have been hiding from her during your relationship which will lead to many more agruments.
2006-08-25 14:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by sugarice82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife - you should.
Your girlfriend - if you want to.
2006-08-25 14:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
GF....no
Wife.....yes and give her the account #
2006-08-25 14:27:26 · answer #10 · answered by Asia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋