SCARED-Pregant?

Question

so i already asked for advice..but im still not sure..i mean..it could just be late right?..and the chances are pretty low..right??..i am on birth control but i havent been talking them on a regular basis..i usually do but SOMETIMES i forget a day..or double my pills on a day..i havent had any signs of pregancy..i was only supposed to get my period about a week ago..my friend is bringing a pregnany test over..only because im afraid of doctors..what else can i do? what if im pregant? i cant' tell my parents..can i get an abortion?..what does it cost? ...do i need to be a certain age??so many questions

Answer 1

blah blah blah
should have kept you legs shut
do murder the poor baby because you are easy
carry it to term, find an adoptive MARRIED couple, grow up and repent

Answer 2

Relax girl, You dont even know yet so calm down! Dont be so hasty whatever you decide Im sure your parents will support you. So tell them! I was just reading this you might want to as well. I dont believe all of it but truthfully I dont think abortion isn't about womens rights its about the money women have been brainwashed, I think. Good luck!

Carol Everett who was involved in the abortion industry in the Dallas, Texas, area from 1977 to 1983. As director of four clinics, and owner of two, Everett was responsible for the clinics' daily operation. Everett, who had an abortion soon after it became legal in 1973, now speaks out on what she saw in the abortion industry.

Here's how Carol Everett answered questions about the abortion industry:

Q. What is the governing force behind the abortion industry?

A. Money. It is a very lucrative business. It is the largest unregulated industry in our nation. Most of the clinics are run in chains because it is so profitable.

Q. In what way is the woman deceived?

A. Every woman has two questions, "Is it a baby?" and Does it hurt?" The abortionist must answer "NO." He/she must lie to secure the consent of the woman and the collection of the clinic's fee. The women were told that we were dealing with a "product of conception" or a "glob of tissue." They were told that there would be only slight cramping, whereas, in reality, an abortion is excruciatingly painful.

Q. What type of counseling was offered at the clinics?

A. We didn't do any real counseling. We sold abortion.

Q. How did you dispose of an aborted baby?

A. We put them down the garbage disposal. Some second and third trimester babies' muscle structure is so strong that the baby will not come apart, so they must be disposed of through trash receptacles.

Q. Abortion is supposed to be a "safe" experience. What complications did you witness?

A. In the last 18 months I was in the business, we were completing over 500 abortions monthly and killing or maiming one woman out of 500. Common complications that take place are perforations or tears in the uterus. Many of those result in hysterectomies. The doctor might cut or harm the urinary tract, which then requires surgical repair. A complication that is rarely publicized is the one in which the doctor perforates the uterus and pulls the bowels through the vagina, resulting in colostomy. Some of those can be reversed, some must live with the colostomy for the remainder of their lives.

Q. Why did you get out of the abortion business?

A. Two things came into play at the same time. I experienced a profoundly religious transformation -- a conversion. At about the time I was having second thoughts, a Dallas television station did an expose disclosing the abortions performed at my clinic on non-pregnant women -- all for money! I finally realized, "We weren't helping women -- we were destroying them -- and their children." By then my transformation was complete and I knew that I not only had to stop being involved with abortions, but I had to help promote the truth.

Former abortionist, Bernard N. Nathanson, M.D., was once a pioneer and a leader in the "abortion industry." Dr. Nathanson presided over 60,000 abortions before undergoing a radical transformation. After realizing how wrong he was about abortion -- not only did Dr. Nathanson quit the abortion business, but now he admits that abortion is murder as he speaks around the world against abortion. Dr. Nathanson has written an autobiography titled, THE HAND OF GOD - A JOURNEY FROM DEATH TO LIFE BY THE ABORTION DOCTOR WHO CHANGED HIS MIND. Abortion doesn't look the same after you view it through the eyes of former abortionists like Dr. Nathanson.

Answer 3

In this order:
1.) Take test 1st
2.) If yes talk to counselor then tell parents - together
3.) Weigh options
4.) Only do an abortion as a last and drastic option (the longer you wait the more the cost and you have to be 18 without parents permission)

Believe it or not I was in the same situation a lonnngggg time ago.
10Th grade-Pregnant-Parents found out on their own (not pretty)-married-quit school. Now my daughter is 21 and going to college.

10 years later-one and only abortion-wish I would have said something to my mom even then. It was a scary and lonely experience. All the bad things that can happen to you in high school happened to me. Not proud of it but now I know by experience what I can tell my children to expect and not expect.

It is always better to tell your parents the truth when you find out about things then letting them find out on their own. Because not only have you lied to yourself but you have lied to the two people who love you most in the world. An the trust you had with your parents is lost and soooo hard to get back.

And you do know that stress makes you late too!

Answer 4

Calm down. Since you did not take them properly there is a descent chance of you being pregnant. It is possible that you are just late. You can get an abortion but I do not recommend it, it can mess with you head for the rest of your life. Depends on your state on how much and if you have to be a certain age. Your best thing is to tell your parents. They may be more calm about it than you think. If not, you should turn to the possible baby's dad for emmotional support and consider raising a child. Or even adoption.

Answer 5

calm down. that's' the first thing you need to think about
calm
down
when your friend gets there, take the test. You probably are not pregnant.
If you are, you are going to be OK. You're parents will be mad at first, then they will come around. And if they don't, there are a lot of programs out there for girls in your situation.
Ultimately, you are going to be OK.
In the future, you should always always always use a condom. You don't know if the guy you are sleeping with has an STD, and that can be worse than being pregnant. trust me. Also, you won't have to worry about this again.
Or better yet, don't have sex until you are OK with the fact that you may become pregnant.

Answer 6

Well I would think your changes are low of being pregnant if you usually take them, but you could always be pregnant. Take the test if it's negative and you still don't get your period retest in a couple days. If you are pregnant and you want to know your options i'd call planned parenthood they are very good and won't tell your parents. They also do things on a sliding scale so if cost is a concern talk to them about that. They are very knowledgeable and will be able to talk to you about all options having it, adoption or abortion. They are very open minded. I hope that helps. I know it can be scary.

Answer 7

Don't freak out until you know for sure. Consider all your alternatives...your parents will be much more understanding than you give them credit for. It sure beats trying to go through it alone, even if they are upset at first. They will get over the shock and be excited! There are a lot of risks that come with getting abortion, not to mention the emotional pain most women suffer afterwards. There are plenty of families that would love to adopt your baby if you don't feel you would give him/her the life he/she deserves. I've known a few girls who have gotten pregnant and the one that had an abortion is an emotional wreck now. Two of them kept the baby and the other one gave hers up for adoption. Getting pregnant isn't the end of the world, as much as you may feel it is. Talk to someone you trust!

Answer 8

if you are scarred then maybe you should not be having sex. Pregnancy is one of the many consequences of having sex among those is getting an std or even HIV(aids) you need to take the test first and then from there make the decision to tell your parents and go and see a doctor. abortion is wrong in my opinion as it kills a living baby but that choice is yours to make but remember you need to inform the baby's father of your intentions otherwise he can sue you. if your test comes back and you are not pregnant think of this as a learning experience and don't do this again
good luck with everything and take care

Answer 9

My baby mama was on BCP when she got pregnant, THe doctor told her alot of women get pregant on bcp when they forget to take a pill and have to double up. Depending on how old you are or if you are in school or what ever you status is should determine if you keep the baby or not, if you're pregnant, I also dontthink there's anything wrong with abortion, also consider is your boyfriend a good guy and will step up.

Answer 10

If the results are positive do not terminate the pregnancy. There is life after giving birth. Abortion should not be an option. Your parents will probably be disappointed. What parent wouldn't be? You can make it past this. If the result is negative, avoid this type of situation by protecting yourself. God bless you to make the right decisions.

Answer 11

You can't decide anything until you know for sure........If it turns out to be negative then you need to rethink your whole birthcontrol situation...if you can not handle remembering your pill every day then you need to talk to your doctor about an alternative contraception that is easier for you to remember......When I was on the pill I addedd it into my normal morning routine and always took it at the same time after I brushed my teeth, but before I put on my makeup.......If you are old enough to be on the pill and old enough to have sex then you had better grow up and be old enough to deal with the consequences...... not to be mean or to preach...but this is why adults say that teens are not ready for sex.......even though they think that they are........