have you or would you ever hit a girl... you are all gonna say no... but it happens ALL the time.... so someone just say.. without saying 'i would never do that' just say what could make u mad enough that u might....
2006-08-25 06:45:17 · 6 answers · asked by *CYN* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I did once early in our marriage, I was 19, wife was 17.. jealousy wasn't the word for it... immaturity may be more like it.... I got mad every time a guy looked at her and I blamed her.... fights were always about money, never had any.... one time in particular she hit me, I hit her back, hard in the shoulder, threw stuff at her, punched walls.... all the crazy stuff..... still can't believe to this day that I did all that. I regret each and every second now that I did that.... we split for 3 months, got back together, then did it again a year later.... split, filed for divorce, 9 months into it got back together..... we were just kids-crazy I know..... we've been together for over 21 years now and I haven't hit her since, wanted to in my mind, but didn't.... of course she has hit me numerous of times, but I guess I can deal with that... looking back now yea I should have never hit her, but sometimes we may be driven or pushed over the edge of no return... no excuse, I take full responsibility for my actions, but sometimes we are not always 100% to blame... maybe 99.9%... some say once they hit they will always hit ISN'T always true... "we" can change.... good luck to you... if your the one being abused, seek help now before it may be to late, if u truley love this person HELP them as it is a problem..... if your the one doing the hitting, think about what your doing--destroying the relationship with every hit--leaving phsyical scars and emotional scares that will last a lifetime!! good luck, have faith and trust in GOD!!
2006-08-25 06:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can say i have never hit a woman .. and hope i never do ... actually i have never hit anyone period .. however ..... sometimes when extreme frustration sets in because you can't get a word in edge wise , or they just scream at you and don't stop .... or extreme nagging ..... that makes me feel like hitting someone ..... i have been there before .. so instead i would walk out of the house or i would hurt myself instead of lashing out .... i had it one time where the person was yelling and yelling and would not shutup ...... i was ready to haul off and hit them .. so instead i went outside and beat my head against the walll until i was bleeding quite profusely ..... not smart either .....
2006-08-25 14:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by ericthemadirishman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never did, but came very close w/ my ex-wife. When I was a teen, a friend of mine was always hitting the girls we hung with. It was all in play, but he would really hit them hard. It always turned my off. Years later, I ran into my old friend who bragged to me that every girl that he ever hit, he went to bed with at some time.
He told me that by literally "hitting on the chics", all of these girls were attracted to him. Now, he is on divorce #3, due to domestic abuse....
2006-08-25 15:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by Tom B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! There are things you don't do like hit women and children.
Of course, some playful spanking with a woman is a different story altogether ;)
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2006-08-25 13:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by Echelon Right 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i donno. im a pretty peaceful person. i would only hit a guy if i was in a fight with him. n if i was in a fight with a girl i "might" hit her but i doubt it (n i hope not)
2006-08-25 13:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by the red furry one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if she deserved it.
Girls, you KNOW who you are.
2006-08-25 13:47:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋