I want to give my hubby a memorable massage. I have the neccessary oils already, though I don't have too much of a clue how to actually give him a nice massage. Until now I have only given massage to girls, and only done back massage...Any serious suggestions and experience is very welcome...
2006-08-25 06:25:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not neccesarily talking about sexual massage...
2006-08-25 06:26:05 · update #1
START BY RUNNING HIM A NICE WARM BUBBLE BATH WITH CANDLES. FEED HIM SOME STRAWBERRIES AND CREAM. WASH HIS BACK ETC. WHEN HE GETS OUT DRY HIM OFF AND LAY HIM ON THE BED. BE SURE THERE ARE CANDLES IN THE BEDROOM AS WELL WITH SOME SOFT MUSIC. MASSAGES HIS ENTIRE BODY. RUB HIM DOWN SLOWLY WITH OIL. TAKING A BREAK EVERY ONCE IN WHILE AND KISS HIM GENTLY ON HIS BODY. FLIP HIM OVER ON HIS BACK AND DO THE SAME THING. KISS "ALL" OVER HIM. END IT WITH A NICE SOFT KISS TO THE LIPS. THE MASSAGE SHOULD LAST ABOUT A GOOD 20 MINUTES. WHEN YOU ARE FINISHED, WATCH OUT!!!!!! ;)
2006-08-25 06:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Again Contradictory ...!
Your words - (love massage? & I am not neccesarily talking about sexual massage).... If it is, then there is no as such Love Massage.
If you done this:
Until now I have only given massage to girls, and only done back massage.
Ans...Similar feelings required to men except a little harder hand.
If a lady giving a 'love massage' to her husband... it must finish as a sexual massage.
'Love massage' can only be given to little children, whether by mother or by father.
I hope the majority should agree with my answer.
2006-08-26 01:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by san_s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you arrange a nice meal, open a bottle of wine, then lay him down and massage him with warm oils culminating in a happy ending (if you know what I mean) you will certainly make a memory.
As you massage him, have him tell you what works and what doesn't . He can also tell you non-verbally by his breathing and his moaning, if he moans. Experiment with different levels of touch, some hard some gentle. You will do fine no matter what you try.
2006-08-25 06:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a whole body massage! Don't miss his fore legs ... although you don't think it'll be great, there are muscles there that everyone ignores. Concentrate solely on the muscles ... don't forget his temples, hands and feet. Even the forearms are great to massage because again those muscles are ignored. Get every inch of his body. Oh! Can't forget ... wear something sexy, and even sexier ... your birthday suit!! He'll absolutely love it.
2006-08-25 06:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by auniquekind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here are a few thing. Start on his back at the shoulders. Take both hands length wise and go down the whole back to right above the buttocks. Pull out to the sides and come back up the sides of the body and out over the shoulders. Do that about 5-7 times. Then move to the side reach over and pull the opposite side with both hands moving from the hip to shoulder. Do that twice then do the other side. Then after that run your thumbs down both sides of the spine to the bottom. Repeat 5 times. Then repeat the first stroke 5 times then move to the lower back. Find the bony triangle at the bottom and using the heel of your hand circle it 5 times keeping your other hand on top of the circling one for balance. Move to the buttocks. Standing to one side use both hands and circle the other buttock 5 to 7 times use firm pressure here. Then use your fists and rotate on the buttock go top to bottom side to side. Then use your hands and pull up from the side to the crack. Got bottom to top. Repeat on the other one. Then Take you thumbs and using a firm pressure go down the crack on both sides. Due that 5 times. Do long strokes down the leg and then to the feet. Sit at the foot and holding with one hand use you thumbs and go over the entire sole with them using a firm pressure, Pull each toe and then using your 1st and 2nd finger in an up and down motion go over the sole again. Repeat on the other foot. I hope this helps
2006-08-25 06:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by Stu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... have him get completely naked. no towel. and do an oil massage everywhere. neck, shoulders, arms, hands, fingers, back, butt cheeks, legs, feet, toes, front too. (if you don't want to do a massage there then cool) but I guarantee that he will not forget that..
Oh and my husband especially likes it when I massage his head. don't use oil tho on that.
2006-08-25 06:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a back massage and then massage his chest by just puttin ur hands flat on his chest and moving it in circles kinda. i cant explain it much but just do something like that. the most simplest thing is put ur hand on wherever ur gonna massage and move it in circles. try it on urself first and see if u like it.
2006-08-25 06:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by Beca <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I get a massage , I noticed once they always rubbed in a downward motion (direction of feet)When I asked why , they said we rub the tension out of you not towards your head.I guess it made sense.
2006-08-25 06:30:17 · answer #8 · answered by suiki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tu viens me voir et te montre ce qu'est un vrai massage. Pas de pb !
2006-08-25 06:29:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, set a romantic mood, get him to lay on his stomache, then massage his back.
2006-08-25 06:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋