I am white and my husband is white. I have been cheating on my husband of 7 years with this black guy in our trailer court for about 6 months and got pregnant.
I was cheating because my husband is terrible in bed. I told him if he didn't start satisfiying me I would cheat so I did. I am affraid that if the baby comes out black my husband will hook up the trailer and leave me. I can't stay with the black guy because he is going back to prision next month. I'm 8 monthes preg.
What would you do?
2006-08-25 06:25:05 · 29 answers · asked by hello 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I think that you should have asked what to do long before now. You first have to think about your health and sleeping around has become very deadly these days. On top of it all you slept around with some one who is going to prison. The first question is Has he ever been to prison before? If so you really need to get checked out because as we have heard and read there are a lot of down low brothers fresh out of prison. My suggestion is you need to do some fast growing up in the next month and start making some adult decisions. Bringing a child into this world is nothing to play with. It comes with a lot of responsibility and how can the lover take care of a child in prison. I'm sure the rest of the tax payers will have a field day with this one.
2006-08-25 06:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Mac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is never the answer. (No I'm not a hypocrit, I learned the hard way that even if you cheat b/c he did it doesn't make you feel any better) It sounds like you and your husband need to work on your communication. Bad sex is not permanent. Sometimes men just need a little sex ed 101 on what feels good to us. As for the situation, you can't change that paternity of the baby and you need to be honest. It's not always easy but if the baby isn't his, he's going to react alot different if he is informed of the possibility rather than being humiliated in the hospital asking if they brought him the wrong baby (if the baby is mix). If he truly loves you and you are truly sorry for what you have done you two can work through this. It may not happen at first, it takes time for things to calm down, especially when you're feelings are hurt or you've been betrayed. Just try and talk things out. If he decides to leave you have to deal with the consequences from your actions and move on. Just remember you are going to be a mother and have to stay strong for that baby regardless. Good luck.
2006-08-25 13:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by SAMANTHA M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd call Jerry Springer and give birth while on the show.That would rock!
If the question was serious, I have no idea what to tell you. Talk to parents,family or close friends and confide. Hopefully they will provide support no matter what.
Also, I do not want to pretend that I'm very moral or anything, but why do you cheat on your husband? If he sucks so much, just leave him. And use birth control the next time you hook up with anybody.
2006-08-25 13:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by jimbell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this isn't a joke or a story for jerry springer or maury......stop and think about it. if you have been cheating for only 6 months and you are eight months pregnant there is no way the black guy can be the father. if it is a joke you have covered all the neccesities for the trailer park life. so why not go on jerry or maury's show if you can find acouple of guys who want the attention! i'm sure you could be as convincing as the rest of their guests!
2006-08-25 13:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should of been honest in the first place with your husband just because he is bad in bed doesn't mean he doesn't have feelings and to let him think that the baby is his for eight months is heartless if it might not be his so it sounds like this problem is your fault good luck when the baby comes out try to talk to him now and if he leaves at least you will have month before the baby gets here to get your s-hit together
2006-08-25 13:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by daisy_2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations on your pregnancy. It's unfortunate that you are pregnant and do not know which guy is the Dad. All I can say is..
Start preparing as much as you can for the worst. Your actions have consequences and your action may bring you a divorce and homelessness. You should always think what your actions could bring to your table. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.
2006-08-25 13:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by net_grl79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jerry Springer
2006-08-25 13:34:19 · answer #7 · answered by landscaperschick73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about growing up and being honest?? You have a much greater chance of him staying around if you sit him down and tell him now instead of hoping the baby will be light skinned and then having it come out dark and shocking the hell out of him!! Think about how you would feel if this situation happened the other way around. You made your bed now you've gotta lay in it.
2006-08-25 13:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by JL's Mom 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think the pregnancy is here and you will have to love your child no matter what. even though it will be rough i would find a way to keep my child any day over the man. i am not saying what you did was right ...but it happened and now a baby is here ....no matter who the dad is put your child first. if the child comes out white or black the child is still YOURS!....just my opinion
2006-08-25 13:34:13 · answer #9 · answered by ME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you grow up and stop playing, And just for you information dumb *** mixed babies don't come out black. You need to get A life and you sound like A racist I hope you never have A mixed child get A life.
2006-08-25 13:52:32 · answer #10 · answered by honeygirland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋