how do I make it hot like it was in the begining?

Question

we live in the country so we use to do it everywhere,cowpastures,by the windmill,down by the creek.before every room was used,now Its stopped with once a week the lazy way when Im half asleep,how do I get back what I had?

Answer 1

I can relate.My husband and I use to be so wild and free.Anytime and anywhere.But now it's gotten to the point that I can pretty much write our time into a weekly planner!But I refuse to give into boredom!! Bring out a new toy(if you're into that)Or do a little role playing.Ask him to do something manly like check something on your car and drag him into the back seat.Show him that you're still interested in the spark that you had.Sometimes men don't realize that we still desire creativeness when it comes to sex.They believe that once we are in a serious relationship with them that we are the old ball and chain and don't care much about that anymore.Have some fun and prove him wrong!!(sexy lingerie is fun too.)

Answer 2

You don't, but that isn't necessarily a bad thing. Relationships go through phases and it is perfectly normal. In the first phase, which you are describing, you can't keep your hands off and your pants on. No one can sustain that forever. That is why relationships pass into the attachment phase which is where a couple begins to experience much deeper feelings. The danger here is that it is easy for couples to begin to take each other for granted.

Assuming you are now in the attachment phase, maybe you should talk with each other and see if he is feeling what you are feeling. I suspect that if you open up the lines of communication that you will find that you can start to make plans to be more intimate and passionate -- maybe not like before, but at a level that will make you happy. Try not to set unrealistic expectations about how much sex you should be having. Go for quality and not quantity.

Answer 3

You need to go into attack mode. Attack him in the cow-pasture, by the windmill, down by the creek and any other place you can think of. You need to start the engine running. He should follow if he is a normal male.

Oh it can get a lot better than the beginning if you both want it to. Wife and I talked about long ago and we both want it to improve and be hotter always. If one slacks of the other pushing the buttons.

Have fun

Answer 4

Be happy with what you've got. The truth is the flesh will get tired especially when basically you've covered every piece of your land. If you keep going this route, you'll never be satisfied and only want more. The best thing to do is to be content.

Question: How is having sex in the cow pasture better than half asleep sex?

Answer 5

Adjust to his schedule. Get yourself a collar and a leash. Farm out the kids, put on some good music, have a nice meal and beverages prepared.

When he comes home, relax and feed him. Go in the bed room, shout out what is he up for tonight. Enter the room in a nice revealing bustier and some nice stockings with no shoes on. Hand him the leash, go on all fours and tell him your new "pet" name. If that doesn't spice things up a little he is getting it someplace else.

Answer 6

You have to work at it. If you have children that could be a good reason to slow down. Sex tapers off after a while but that doesn't mean it has to stop or be boring. Try working out your fantasies with each other. Get a sex tape (not a porn) Get the kama sutra that will be fun and funny at the same time.

Answer 7

You need to wear things that make you look and feel sexy.Try being flirty and make as many sexual commets as you can.Just remember you always want to be the best that he's ever had!Instead of different locations maybe you could get a book on positions and have him pick his favorites and you pick some your favorites jot them down on paper and draw from a hat.There are many fun games and toys you can try.

Answer 8

Spice it up girl!!! Get some toys (if youre into that), get some sexy lingere, do a little dance.....Make him want you!!!!! Don't just say "Lets do it" haha.....Make him want you bad....Tease him,....not just for a little bit....Start out a day or two before by touching, massaging, kissing, and telling him that you have surprises in store for him a few days....Keep him guessing!!!! Do something you've never done before but have always wanted to!!! Be the Vixen that he knows is inside you!!!!

Answer 9

Buy some toys, use them, role play, go for a drive and find a secluded spot. Quit being lazy! Relationships take lots of work!

Answer 10

Do what you used to do. Something unexpected might be welcomed. You might just have to initiate it. Tell him you want to spice things up and ask him if there is anything he would like to do/try. Just have some fun and do the stuff you remember, in every room!!