the father of my children have found someone to replace me and my children don't want anything to do with me. they say that they have a new mother and that they don't want me in their lives
2006-08-25 06:13:09 · 10 answers · asked by Suzy Q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What is your question; you didn't really ask one! Elaborate, please.
2006-08-25 11:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would that be?i left my husband 7 yrs ago and my three boys thought that it would be better for them to stay with him.well as they got older they noticed that it wasnt all that great living with him and found out the reason i left was for my own good.guess what all three of them not 21 20 and 18 live with me and my husband now.their step mom was a ***** and ripped my ex off and my kids now he is divorced again.they will realize that the grass is not greener on the other side.im just confused on why they would totally go against u love is unconditioanl when it comes to our kids or parents.we all make mistakes i suggest that u sit down a have a real heart to heart with them.blood is thicker than water they will get it sooner or later
2006-08-25 13:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by nvvlewis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suzy, as much as it hurts, and I KNOW THE ACTUAL WORDS hurt you but you need to give them their space, they will eventually come back to you, and if not then you say a prayer for them and forgive for they know not what they do, honestly.....
It may take something tragic, or something so joyfully bliss that brings you and your children back together, but right now give them space and dont let the words and actions that they are saying and doing stop you from loving your children POSITIVELY!!!
When it all boils down, YOU ONLY GET ONE MOTHER IN ONE LIFETIME!!!!
2006-08-25 13:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by voluptoustaureanfemale 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know that hurts but give them time. They will come back to you. Just don't go off half ******. Just continue to be there for them. Visit them, call them, write them, send them birthday/holiday gifts. Show them that you are there for them no matter what. They're probably too young and impressionable to understand. Be patient. Keep your head up and show your ex that he's the fool. He's in the wrong. Your children will see it too, eventually. Good luck.
2006-08-25 13:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by gemone523 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Should be reason why your husband left you and should be a reason why kids don't love you anymore and found new mom?
I can tell you why??? I don't love my mom or dad... There are no body to me and they treat me like hell... so I stopped talking to my mom and dad for 10 years now and been great. speaking of hell beat up, told me no good and even my mom cheating on my dad and dad cheating on my mom. gosh white trash stories to tell.
so you not telling enough why you husband left and what did you do cheating or something what let me know thanks.
2006-08-25 13:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry, that must be very hurtful cause its your children. i don't really like my mom but i would never say something like that then again would i?
2006-08-25 13:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by Angela 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats awful, i am so sorry u are dealing with that, try and talk to you kids and tell them u love them and will always be thier mother and its not wrong for them to like thier step mother but u still want to be in thier life
2006-08-25 13:17:28 · answer #7 · answered by maple_bud_on 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's gotta hurt a lot. But there is nothing you can do now... I really feel bad for you, and I think they are being unnecessarily cruel.
2006-08-25 13:17:15 · answer #8 · answered by Magina 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You must be a piece of work to have alienated you kids like that.
2006-08-25 13:27:16 · answer #9 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
seems like you were one bitc* to the family
2006-08-25 13:16:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋