I have feelings for someone who I know is not right for me. Why is it that I want someone who I KNOW is not right for me. I can't get the guy out of my head and need some ideas on how to do it... I try to forget him but when I see him I get all the butterflies and things like that and my heart gets the better of me.....
Help......
2006-08-25 05:49:35 · 13 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
IF he gives you butterflys then whats wrong with that? i met my honey 18 yrs ago, so many things were against him, but he is still my soulmate to this day, dont think about all the things that are wrong with being with him, think about all the things that are wrong when your not with him.
2006-08-25 05:57:14 · answer #1 · answered by mcharmd 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes avoid him and keep your mind busy. If you have to become a work a hol ic for a while do it. Time does heal somewhat. Then while you are keeping busy you may find someone else. Good Luck I know what you are going through.
2006-08-25 12:53:08 · answer #2 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't always attracted to the "right" kind of guy. Attraction is just that attraction and it can do weird things to you. Give it a go and see what happens if nothing else the sex may be amazing!!
2006-08-25 12:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by auzzimama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, been with her for 30 years. I keep driving to a part of the city that I know she doesn't know.I drop her off, but she somehow beats me home.
2006-08-25 13:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by Steve G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know he's not right for you why do you want him so i guess you believe something is there just forget him and think that you can never have him and things won't work
2006-08-25 12:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're young and just want to have fun then go for it, give him a chance and maybe you will change your opinion about him not being right for you. You can be surprised...
2006-08-25 13:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by Mistyfog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately yes.....This is exactly the same situation with me, the only difference is that now I know I won't see him never again in my life.
I know what you feel. Good luck.
2006-08-25 12:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have! I sit down and make out a list of all his negative traits and then I ask myself, why would I want that person in my life?
2006-08-25 12:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know he the wrong kind of guy for you then you have already answer your own question.
2006-08-25 13:04:27 · answer #9 · answered by Ellen J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse, haven't we all? Time and avoidence that's the only thing to help....on the bright side, atleast you realize and admit that they are bad for you...that's the first step hon.....
2006-08-25 12:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by ndussere 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋