It's a very long story but I have just got a goodbye email from a girl I have been crazy about for years. She sort of led me on a bit and messed me up really badly. I told her how hurt I was and she has got angry with me and sent me a letter saying to never speak to her again etc. I know she means it and know I will never hear from her again. I am so upset about it all. It just doesn't seem fair. Some of what she said in her mail was true but some was very unfair. I don;t know whether to reply to it or not? I am frustrated at what she has said and want to defend myself a bit, but at the same time, I feel that maybe I should just leave it and let her have the final word. It's just the whole thing is eating away at me.
2006-08-25 05:05:53 · 11 answers · asked by Mr looking for answers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It may hurt,but it's best to move on and try and forget her. No matter what you say or how you defend yourself, she's already got her mind made up and I doubt she will change it. Honestly if a girl is going to be that heartless to end it with you by email than I think your better off without her.Good luck,and the hardfeelings and heartache will get better.
2006-08-25 05:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by Wish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there's more to this than what you've disclosed in your question. However, based only on the information provided, I recommend you leave the whole situation just as it is and walk away. If merely explaining that you felt hurt as a result of her behavior solicited such a harsh reaction, odds are she either has no feelings for you at all, or she's not a very caring person that you should invest any further energy in.
You would do better to try and make peace with the situation as it stands and move on. If it continues to eat away at you, find a more positive outlet for your frustration.
2006-08-25 05:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by nyboxers73 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You told her how hurt you were and she sent you an angry e-mail... just doesn't make any sense. It's hard to tell without any knowledge of her and your personality but this just sounds so odd. Maybe she is trying to get rid of you, maybe she is insecure with you only you can know that, but is there a possibility of some miscommunication? I suggest that you check it out, but also don't bet on it simply to protect yourself. I have made mistakes, telling you sometimes two words taken wrongly can trash a hell of a lot... trashed the whole lot for me once. If women feel insecure and they want some confirmation of sorts you can get something similar.
2006-08-25 07:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that its important to talk out things and try to clear the air if possible. You know there are some true things that she said to you, so call her, if u can, and talk to her. Tell her that you understand the things she has said, and ask her why she said the unfair things. Maybe she just wants to get back at you and see if you really do care about her. But call her and talk to her, and you never know you might clear up the misunderstanding. At least from your side you should do your best at making things work, so that later on in life you have no regrets about not having tried at least.
2006-08-25 05:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by WantToForget 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that happen to you. I know what its like to feel strongly about someone and then they just flip out on you. But the best thing to do right now is give yourself time and keep your distance from her. If its meant to be its meant to be. Keep your head up and do other things to try to keep your mind off of it. I know its hard. Trust me!!! I just had to do this recently myself.
2006-08-25 05:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by Lady C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I sense a restraining order coming on!! don't give her the satisfaction of telling you to f**k off again! erase her number, email address, and everything else and move on. just be a little less stalky with the next one
2006-08-25 05:19:37 · answer #6 · answered by crownose 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
... reply her back with 'okay.. good luck in your life, I wish you the best, good bye' (or something like so.
you'll get the last word, you'll seem considerate, understanding,etc (not like a jerk), and it won't show how bad it effected you in the real...
well this is what I would do, but thats just me, good luck and god bless!
2006-08-25 05:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So just send her one back or call her to tell her how you feel about the situation...not to argue...but to just say your side of the story and get it off your chest.
2006-08-25 05:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you know what you feel inside, so if you think you sould mail her back then do so.
2006-08-25 05:10:49 · answer #9 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whats best
2006-08-27 02:46:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋