Can someone tell me if anal hurts...i am a female what is the deal why do guys like this or even want to try this??? The guy that wants to try it has been in the front and enjoyed it and even said i was nice and tight....so what is the deal?
2006-08-25 04:48:36 · 15 answers · asked by firecrackertx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It feels good. A matter a fact I have been some females who say that the orgasm they get while receiving anal are more intense than when having conventional sex. As a guy it's a variety thing. When my S/O lets me do it, and it's not often, I get really excited and it makes the sex extra exciting.
2006-08-25 04:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm male.....and have been enjoying anal with my wife. She also likes it, as it has been forbidden by her sister as painful, but she found it erotic. The reason men probally likes anal is because it it tighter than vagina, and therefore more pleasureable to the penis. However, it is all in how the couples views it, and the way they do it. Nice and slow, with plenty of lube seems to be the best way. I imagine it is painful if the guy slams it in there without lube, and is thick penised, so I believe the lady needs to call the shots here, and the guy has to take it easy as she says, or he will not get any more with her!
2006-08-25 11:58:14 · answer #2 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It feels good for men. As for pain.. I do it.. I recommend getting use to it with the thin variety of butt * plug (that you get from an adult store)and let your muscles get use to it. Then when it's time to DO it, use the plug first to relax then lube him up and just keep telling yourself to relax and tell him that YOU will control the penetration. It is NOT like vaginal, that he can just pump away. That's where the pain comes in. You have an INVOLENTARY muscle called the sphinter that he will have to treat carefully to open then when he's past that, you are home free. He can pump away. I REALLY advise that you control the penetration or it will hurt more than necessary! Once you do it, the more you do it, the easier for next time it will be.. but be warned.. if you don't do it for a few weeks it will be like starting from square one. Don't do it in the dark (you don't want to cross contaminate.) Dim is ok. Oh, and it's a great alternative to doing it during your monthly. Good luck.
2006-08-25 12:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by Valeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have any clue. I was just reading some of the answers and thought i should post an answer to clear one thing up. NEVER EVER use oil or oil-based lubes like mrseahorse mentioned. It takes about 7 years for your body to all that oil out. and if you use oils more than 2 or 3 times a week you will have major problems. ALWAYS use a WATER-BASED lubricant. Your body can cleanse itself of these very easily and it won't set up the infections the oil based lubes will.
2006-08-25 12:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by Eagle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes anal hurts. But if you use numbing gels such as "anal ease" and try having a few drinks first, it's not so bad.
I think most men like it because it's a bit taboo.
2006-08-25 11:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by RoseXXX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it hurts but a guy ain't gonna tell u that it hurts cause they don't feel that it hurts only u silly cause ur on the receiving end.. they like it cause it's tight.. but it's nasty.. u can rip, u can get an infection, u can still catch hiv/aids, and its painful.. u can have problems moving ur bowels and if u go back to vaginal from anal sex then u can get a vaginal infection...
don't do it....
2006-08-25 11:53:24 · answer #6 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done it a couple of times
If your going to try it first have lots of baby oil, second you have to have a patience lover, the first time he has to take it very, very slow when inserting it, and take it slow for the first couple of strokes then if you want he can speed it up a little, but he ALWAYS has to remember that it has to feel good and right for you and if it doesn't then he has to STOP.
2006-08-25 11:56:51 · answer #7 · answered by captianpr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nooo, anal acts just like vagina, it hurts a little in the beginning but afterwards it's ok and girls also enjoy that as much as guys......guys wanna try this cause anus is tighter then vagina and usually every girl is not ready for anal sex so if any guys gets his girl ready for this, he sees it as a victory........thats why he looks happy
2006-08-25 11:56:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went out with a lady who was very religious(Christian).She would only allow me to penetrate her anally-her suggestion. I never found out her reasons.
2006-08-25 11:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tryed it..hurts and think it's nasty. My ex-husband wanted this but my new husband has never asked cause I told him how I felt from the start.
2006-08-25 11:51:19 · answer #10 · answered by e_deckwa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋