2006-08-25 04:38:25 · 21 answers · asked by gebjess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Umm . . . DUMP HIM! Duh! Oh and by the way, he isn't an idiot. He isn't putting up with anything . . .you are. Sorry.
2006-08-25 04:57:03 · answer #1 · answered by KelFrances 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can't control him and he did have a life before you. He is trying to set a pattern, to see if you will agree to him talking to his ex-girlfriend. Peep this and be the bigger one, say sure you can holla at her on the cell or whatever, just know what you do, I can too. and the guys I talk too will not be a EX~
Keep it REAL~ He can not be ONE WAY~ Two sides to everything. If he does not want you to do it then he will RESPECT the relationship~ If not then do you and talk to someone else on the cell. he is getting cake and ice-cream. What in the world do him and the EX have to talk about? They should of did all there talking during the relationship~ GAME OVER~
2006-08-25 11:44:01 · answer #2 · answered by HotPucci220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasnt stopped by now, he never will. Send his *** packing and tell him to go back to her. You dont need the drama in your life over a lost love he once had. However, the ex is just as much at fault by still talking to him. So send him out, dont let this complicate and screw up your life and ruin your attitude towards other men. Basically, GIVE HIM AN ULTIMATUM, "HER OR YOU"! Be very strict about this and let him know, in no uncertain terms, that he will stop or its over. YOU, have the power to get it done. Use this power and get it done. Good Luck.
2006-08-25 11:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by tennman012000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt like it. But, my ex tried to talk to me while he had a new girlfriend she didnt mind. But, i dont like it because guys who do that dump you and go back with the ex
2006-08-25 11:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by red_ram_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a real pain in the backside. Shes only contacting him because youre allowing it. And he likes the thought of having two women. Nip this crap in the bud.
2006-08-25 11:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that there is 2 ways that you can go about dealing with this... first,,,,, if the relationship is strong you ahould be able to trust him and know that he would never leave you or betray your relationship..... second,,,,, tell him that , him talking to that girl makes you uncomfortable and that either he stops talking to her or you will leave,,,, do you realy think its right for you to choose his freinds..?
2006-08-25 11:48:58 · answer #6 · answered by sunshine girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
He is an idiot, he cannot even see that his ex does not really want him, she just wants to destroy his new relationship. He is blind and a blind fool at that too !
2006-08-25 11:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by Latin Techie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talk to him first. Ask him to stop talking to her!
If he doesn't. No more point for discussion: DUMP HIM!
2006-08-25 11:47:55 · answer #8 · answered by atrabel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he does not love you, he loves his ex. that's why you don't go out with guys that have Xs.
2006-08-25 11:41:52 · answer #9 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would first tell him that I didnt like it. If he kept doing it then look for someone else.
2006-08-25 11:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by flowwjoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him out the door and let her have him
2006-08-25 11:53:03 · answer #11 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋