2006-08-25 04:09:49 · 35 answers · asked by totti 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Cruelty!
2006-08-25 04:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by ii7-V7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now there's a question. Do you want every single person on the planet to love you unconditionally, or do you want to impress a particular group of people, or a particular person?
Honesty and directness always work with me, I'm not one who tolerates bullshit. However, I appreciate that an individual might be shy, and that speaking out can be difficult for them ... but where there's a will to make yourself heard, there's a way ...
Be yourself. Do not try to change your personality to suit other people's idea of 'cool' - you are who you are. If they don't like you for this, that's their problem. But while they might not like you for not conforming, they will certainly respect you, deep down.
Respect is where it's at, because it's on your terms. Love comes later.
2006-08-28 22:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make people love you---you can only let them use you and make it appear that they love you. Human love is basically lust---people will tell you tat they love you because they want something from you. The only pure love comes from God---his love never fails and is everlasting. Concentrate on the love of God and you will feel loved all the time.
2006-08-25 04:13:21 · answer #3 · answered by Preacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make others love you or even like you - you have to like/love others to be love/like!
TO have friends you have to be a friend. I don't know why you want people to love you but just be yourself!@
2006-08-25 04:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by nswblue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Anytime you try to "MAKE" someone do anything their defenses go up and they will actually fight against the idea. On the other hand if you "LET" someone love you it will happen naturally and quickly. Be genuine, likeable, fun, and happy. NO ONE likes a gloomy Gus or Gertrude. Also, you have to love yourself before someone else can love you.. Good Luck
2006-08-25 04:15:33 · answer #5 · answered by DrK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make people love you
2006-08-25 04:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by officegirluk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always heard that you can't make people love you, you can only be the kind of person that people can love.
BUT, my opinion is also that you can surround yourself with more loving and caring people. That will up your chances of being loved.
2006-08-25 04:12:24 · answer #7 · answered by it's me! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love them, understand them, and try to make them feel good, by comforting them in matters that they like to share.
While I don't like to begg for love to people in general, I am only telling you this based on my personal experience about someone I love alot.
2006-08-25 05:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean anyone in particular, it's impossible.
If you mean in general - you have to be lovable. Take time for people, give them your attention and support (especially attention). You don't have to spend money, just be there for them. If you can make 'em laugh when appropriate and stick around when it's not - you're lovable and sooner or later, someone will love you.
2006-08-25 04:14:53 · answer #9 · answered by UKJess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love them, be good to them, help them and give time to be with the people.
2006-08-25 04:13:44 · answer #10 · answered by nick_doyet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't MAKE people love you. You can possibly make people LAUGH.... but not love. Sorry.
2006-08-25 04:57:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋