My man is a *** man so he is always *** watching while he is with me. I don't care what he does when we are apart, but I need some respect when we are together. Do u agree?
2006-08-25 03:24:47 · 29 answers · asked by Yum*Yum 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know I wouldn't have it.
2006-08-25 03:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by Hippie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart I am in the same position as you my boyfriend of 3 years is doing the same thing as your man, yes this is disrespectful to me and you. Why? I couldn't tell you whatever they do when we are apart is different than when we are together they should show us that respect. You know that use to bother me all the times when we are together it like he has to look at their butts no matter where we are at driving, out in the mall etc....
that's a man for you. I don't let it bother me anymore, when I see a nice guy I look, let him know what you can do I can do also and better. So sista don't let that get to you. I did let it get to me and we had the biggest argument but why? He still doing the same the thing. So why sweat it? GOOD LUCK
2006-08-25 10:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look a real man would care what you think and would respect you. First you have to respect yourself enough that the first time it happened you would walk away from him and do the silent treatment. He would get the point real quick. If not dump and find a guy who cares about you enough that it wouldn't matter what walked by you would be the center of attention.
2006-08-25 10:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by really???? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women do but not me because a man is going to be a man anyway you cant stop him from looking thats his right, but a note for the ladies your *** is the last one he sees at night and the first one he sees in the morning so let him look
2006-08-25 10:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by babyrocky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that he should exercise some restraint while the two of you are together, yet many men have difficulty with impulse control. Perhaps you should turn the tables a bit and do the same; tell him how HOT the guy is that just walked by and see how he reacts.
2006-08-25 10:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i know what it feels like but don't say you've never looked at a really hot dude or dudes while you were with him?!?
ok i know alot of guys personally and a mean ALOT of guys so a word of advice for you from the guys.... they may look coz its in their nature to look at girls but do you really think he would stay with you if there was something you didn't have that he likes about you and not the other chicks...
so give your man some slack but let him know that you will only tolerate it to a point so just remember that even though he looks doesn't necessarily want them. its when he's not looking at a hot chick walking past that you should really start to worry whats going on!!!
2006-08-25 10:50:09 · answer #6 · answered by Crazy_German 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not disrespectful unless he makes an @ss out of himself in the process....I mean, is he whistling and drooling? If he's only noticing you should not take it so personal...my man is also an @ss man....hell, I even find women for him to look at. We could be walking in a store and I see an attractive woman...I will tell my husband "Hey, look, baby...she's got a nice @ss" (or something to that effect). It's fun...you should try it sometime. It will probably shock the hell out of him.
2006-08-25 10:33:47 · answer #7 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. It's not a bad thing to enjoy the sight of a beautiful woman, or man for that matter. Now if he makes it so noticeable that other's around you find it rude, then maybe it's a problem. The only other problem I would have is if my b/f said things like "why doesn't your *** look like that?" or "mmm, I'd love a taste of that...."
But that's just me.
2006-08-25 10:39:24 · answer #8 · answered by THP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dio agree with you,how would he like it if you started staring at guys crotches> Oh man I bet hes got a big one,wow look how tight his pants are I can see the outline of everything,naw he wouldnt like it. yea if its right in front of him hes gonna se it but to just stare is very rude and shows disrespect to you.
2006-08-25 10:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me being aguy I just can't help it. I have to look. It's not to be disrespecful It's the way we are made. Guess if we didn't we would be gay. The girls check out the guys too. Give him a break. Just remember look but don't touch.
2006-08-25 13:20:09 · answer #10 · answered by Wild Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as u r not confortable he should respect u and stop it. i dont think he would like it if u were to see another mans a ss infront of him. maybe u should flirt with another man and maake him jelous so he knows how it feels. any way all men r dogs
2006-08-25 10:30:07 · answer #11 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋