Been divorced now for two years all along we were never in touch,I got a phone call lately that she is in hospital and they called if I cn visit her...I am keeping our kid. I just dont want....I am I committing crimes.
2006-08-25 03:21:04 · 14 answers · asked by havemercy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh, I think you should go if you want to. Just because you don't want to spend your life with someone, doesn't mean you hate them.
2006-08-25 03:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the hospital is calling to see if you will visit... it must be something kinda big... I would bring the kid so that they can see their mother.... as far as the rest I am not sure what you mean... I guess it also would depend... call the hospital and find out why she is there... it may be something that you should allow her the dignity to see the child... and it may be a mental facility... I would ask you for a bit more info.
2006-08-25 10:33:39 · answer #2 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand your question!?! You may not be close to your ex but, you both have children together and how do you think that will look to your children? You have a responsibility weather you like it or not to ensure that your children grow up to be respectful of all life human or otherwise. Get your butt to that hospital and give your regards! Your children, when they are older will see you as a bigger better man! In the end you want them to have a heart! Don't allow your hatred of one another to separate you from your children later in life!
2006-08-25 10:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by wonderingmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not committing a crime by not visiting her. You are just being an *** by not visiting her.
2006-08-25 10:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by lavenderroseford 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have to say yes, reason being if your not with anyone else right now it's just to show your ex you still care about her and that don't have any hard feelings about the way your marriage ended up, apart of you will always love her because she gave you a beautiful child did she not. let by gones be bygones and show her you still care she needs her family right now like it or not your always going to be apart of her family and her life.
2006-08-25 10:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by sheila_yoder9160 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean? You are commiting crimes??????
Do they just want you to bring your child to go and visit her... is this not even about you at all???
2006-08-25 10:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by Heather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and her have a kid together; most definitely! That would be proper etiquette! If you didn't have a kid; you wouldn't go! You need to take your kid to see his mother!! God, I can't believe you even had to ask that question? Don't you have a mother, or a girlfriend?
2006-08-25 10:41:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the kids and a lotta of meaningful gifts and flowers
2006-08-25 10:26:47 · answer #8 · answered by Bru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can she talk on the phone? call her and say your coming up to visit
and read her response, if she is unconscious it doesn't matter
2006-08-25 10:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by Richie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask us----- it's up to you.
and stop committing crimes.
2006-08-25 10:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋