men who are healthy, how long can they last if they relax, have practiced and learned how to not ejaculate that early? I've heard some people saying they have sex for 1 hour. that's good, impressive. but i don't see how that is done.. for me with masterbation it takes always less than a minute and that's it.. then i don't want sex anymore..and all i want is to move on and forget it. is it just me? Or are all men like this.. and why are we made to last so little? any reason?
2006-08-25 03:20:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Most of my men could go for 30-60 minutes when having sexual intercourse with me. As for their own pleasure of masturbation - they decided...how I do not know.Sometimes as a woman I do not want to physically be involved or have sex so that is a good time for my man to masturbate with me cheering him on or alone. It's okay if you and your partner understands how you feel. It can not happen all the time unless you want to live alone or your sexual partner is not interested in sex.
Do not put alot of pressure on yourself to be like others. Personally after a good session of foreplay there were times I enjoyed a 10 minute quickie.
2006-08-25 03:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by ete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOLOL! I think every woman reading your question right now is cringing!
The thing about masturbation, it is fine, nothing wrong with it. But, keep in mind, that when masturbate, the end result is "shooting your load" quickly. Masturbation trains men to ejaculate quick.
What you need to do is slow down your yanking....and when you get that feeling you get right before you let one loose, STOP.... wait like 30 seconds...then keep going.
If you repeat this a few times, you will find yourself lasting longer.
As far as your other issue about....well... you have alotta issues..lol. I'd just say that every man has a "Refractory" period, which is the length of time between ejaculation and the next erection. Some men, it's 10 minutes, others, its an hour.
The interesting thing is, the typical male can usually keep it "up" a lot longer the second time around.
If you know you are going to get funky with that special chickie, my suggestion is to peel one off an hour or so prior to getting busy. I'll bet dollars to doughnuts you last a lot longer.
Good luck.
2006-08-25 10:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on a number of factors, the primary one being how recently you have ejaculated prior to intercourse. Secondly would be how much experience you have had and how much foreplay there had been in that particular event. Third would be general and cardiovascular health. Then there would be, in no particular order, anxiety, how rested you are, how attracted you are, what your fantasies are, etc.
Optimum is somewhere between 8 and 20 minutes, if you are at all interested in the woman climaxing also. I assume that is the reason for your concern, otherwise, why bother?
Best wishes, keep practicing!
2006-08-25 10:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by finaldx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was just about to say who have you been sleeping with until I read the small print.
As far as I know one minute is NOT good.
2006-08-25 10:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A minute? Wow, you'll learn control.
2006-08-25 10:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pace your self, masturbation is to relieve pressure, making love should last longer the more you practice with it
2006-08-25 10:26:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who study Tantra claim to be able to go for days.
2006-08-25 10:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by Kikka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hours sometimes...it depends what/who you're doing. It's all about pacing yourself!
2006-08-25 10:23:50 · answer #8 · answered by a kinder, gentler me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A minute? Are you kidding?
2006-08-25 10:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll learn. Don't worry.
2006-08-25 10:22:33 · answer #10 · answered by JeffE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋