should i tell my friend?

Question

someone help me,her husband is sleeping with my sister friend brother.what should i do?

Answer 1

Listen this is how I would do it... If you come out and just say it then she will think your jealous or whatever. But if you are suttle and plant the bug that you think you saw them together holding hands or being very friendly she will start to look into it. I would just hate for you to lose a good friend over it. I have seen it happen they side with the hubby but if you make it her idea to watch him then you come out as the hero.

Answer 2

did you say that your friends husband is sleeping with another man?Does she know he i bisexual or have I read the question wrong. You need to other wise change your question? If this is the case I think i would appreciate my friend telling me something like that I would be pretty upset if my friend didn't tell me.

Answer 3

That is a delima, hum, If you say something without proof she will think you are causing problems. If you don't and she find out later you knew and didn't say anything then it could cause hard feelings. Try taking her out one night when he is meeting his guy on a date and let her see for her self, but DON"T tell her why you are going there until something happens. Just tell her it's a girls night out. Be there for her after wards too

Answer 4

If you care anything about your friends emotional and physical well being you should tell her. If you don't tell her and she finds out on her own or her health is put at risk. That will be on your mind because you could have saved her from all the hurt and pain.

Answer 5

Think about it if it was the opposite would you want her to tell you? i think you would i certainly would. She needs to know she may not thank you for it straight way but she will come round and realise you were looking out for her. Imagine how she will feel when she finds out another way and realises you knew all along and didn't tell her she would feel like you had also betrayed her

Answer 6

He is sleeping with your sister's friend's brother? You mean he's gay and hasn't come out of the closet yet? or he's bi and wants a man and a woman. Rephrase your question so it makes sense. And you should tell her right away.

Answer 7

YOU SHOULD SAY OUT OF IT YOU COULD LOSE YOUR FRIEND OVER IT LET IT ALL COME OUT IN THE OPEN BY ITS SELF AND BE THERE FOR HER WHEN SHE NEEDS YOU . BUT IF IT IS RELAY BOTHERING YOU THAT HE IS SLEEPING WITH A MAN MAYBE YOU SHOULD JUST ASK HER ABOUT THERE SEX LIFE AND SEE IF THEY HAVE ONE THIS IS A TUFF ONE AS I TYPE IT I WANT TO TELL HER THAT IS RELAY ROTTEN TO DO TO SOME ONE . USE YOUR BEST JUDGE MENT HUN I'M SORRY WASN'T MORE HELP

Answer 8

You should tell, but be aware that you may risk the chance of losing your friend and her not believing you. She may come to her senses later and realize you were just trying to look out for her.

Answer 9

How do you know? If you are a friend you would of already told her. She could get something, then how would you feel. Wouldn't you want to know if your husband went from tacos to hotdogs?

Answer 10

If you were my friend, I would want you to tell me....My X husband was cheating on me and my friends new and did not tell me....They are no longer my friends, they didn't care enough about me to tell me, they only cared about themselves getting involved, so F*** them.... Tell her, she may get upset with you at first but in the long run she will be thankfull.....good luck....