I am a bi female and i guess someone at work found out, they have left me notes tellin me they like me and that they know am bi, i really don't care that they know but it's kelling me not knowing who it is, how can i figuer it out?
2006-08-25 02:56:12 · 10 answers · asked by sour_apple809 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
How do i call a sexual harassment if i don't even have an idea, a clue, as to whom they may be.
2006-08-25 05:06:44 · update #1
How would or what would i do to finger out if someone is bi or if it's them?
2006-08-25 05:08:11 · update #2
Leave them a note in what ever spot they leave one for you. Ask them to stop playing these games and just talk to you if they really like you.
2006-08-25 05:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you really want to know who it is, I'd start asking around. If the notes bother you, ignore them and try not to focus on them. If you do that and the notes get progessively worse and more creepy, contact someone of authority, because it could be sexual harassment. However, if you're interested in finding out who it is, you could be a little sneaky, pretend to leave your cubicle/desk, go to a place where you can see your desk and be somewhat hidden and see if anyone leaves a note. Just remember to contact someone if the notes become a little stalker-ish.
2006-08-25 11:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like it scares you or bothers you - but that youa re intrigued. SO let it continue for a while - enjoy the cat and mouse game....maybe leave a note back but in YOUR note don't sy too much just say like "Thank you" or "I like chocolate" or something fun. It will certainly make work more interesting. When they are ready they will reveal themselves to you.
2006-08-25 10:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a sexual harassment claim let them find out for you.
2006-08-25 10:01:39 · answer #4 · answered by Big c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
report it to the boss. any good supervisor will put out a memo on sexual harassment.
and odds are...the admirer is a male who wants to watch you get it on with another woman.
2006-08-25 09:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by jillybean2213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anyone sits near to see them delivered have them keep eyes open for you when you are away from the desk.
2006-08-25 10:01:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you find out who it is like think of all the boys at your work and thinkof the one lokks at you strange the mosy
2006-08-25 10:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by Alyssa P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully this person will not turn into a stalker.
2006-08-25 10:58:58 · answer #8 · answered by Mark F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid it...this is sexual harassment
2006-08-25 09:59:16 · answer #9 · answered by jro660 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have sex with her
2006-08-25 10:21:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋