well my best friend ditched me and well is making my life hell do i move skools?
2006-08-25 02:51:59 · 29 answers · asked by lolli k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what if he wa taking all of your friends away and they arnt noticing?
2006-08-25 03:02:04 · update #1
what if she was taking ur friendsaway and they dont notice?
2006-08-25 03:02:44 · update #2
this is a seriouse situation i maybe only a yr 8 but i no that we are all still figuring out who we want to hang with seeing we have met new people but they are taking everything i have!!!
2006-08-25 03:07:31 · update #3
He is making u miserable..just move to a new sch and start anew. If it was something you did, just apologise to him..or stab him. Ha..the last part was a joke man..
2006-08-29 02:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by LEGO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really give a lot of details here... and you sound young.
It really depends on the situation. Did you do anything to damage the relationship? Would an apology (if you want to be friends) help? Did he/she do something that offended you?
What was the nature of the disagreement? Think it over and see if this is a friendship that is teaching you to grow, that is nurturing in some way. That what friendships are all about!
As for the harassment- is it personal? public? harmful?
Being in 'skool', you might have resources. If this 'friend' is getting physical or truly harassing you, you might want to get adults involved. You are in 'skool' to learn, not make friends- they are the pleasant (usually) by product. You can indicate that the harassment is not only distracting you from your studies but actually interfering with them. Who can learn when one is looking over ones shoulder? You might want to pull out the school manual and see how many of the 'rules' they are breaking and bring THAT up.
If the harassment is on a more subtle level you might want to get parents involved.
If this is just a silly spat over a pair of borrowed jeans- please get over it!
Good luck!
2006-08-25 10:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by An Opinionated One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you switch schools, it will prove that she wins. Don't let her. Switching schools may be an option, but it is something you'll have to talk to your parents about. Some towns/cities only allow for the switching of schools with a very good reason, especially if you don't change your address. Obviously she isn't your best friend, make new friends and move on. If you know what she is saying isn't true, try not to let it get to you. Maybe she is just jealous of you or something you have. If you try and prove to her that it's not bothering you, she will stop. But as soon as you let it get to you, she'll do it more and more. The worst thing you can do is start a rumor about her, that would just start a war. If things get very, very bad, I would see a guidance counselor or school personnel so she could get in trouble. Also, if she is bothering you outside of school, and I know this may be pushing it, but the police could get her in trouble on charges of harrassment. Good luck girl!
2006-08-25 09:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't move schools honey! God has not given you the spirit of fear, but of power love and a sound mind. You have to realize that you are worth more than someone ditching you. If she left you, it's her lose because she is probably leaving a real good freind. Show her that your life can still go on without her. Keep your head held high, you have the rest of your life to make new friends, ones that will cherish you for who you are and love you unconditionaly!
2006-08-25 10:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by Camille 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still in school, you are young and this isn't going to matter in 5 years. If she is trying to make your life a living hell, then she obviously has nothing better to do with her time. Make new friends and move on. The best thing you can do is to act like it doesn't bother you and eventually, this will fade.
2006-08-25 10:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not move schools I would give back what she's given in. I guess I'm more of the type that don't really care what people say or do. If someone would do that to me I just make there life living hell to. When I was in school kids did not mess with me to much because I got right back at them. Say if they spread rumors, spread them right back. If they say bad things to you act like you don't even care and walk highly with head up high.
2006-08-25 10:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by Christy H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't use the word best friend for any one who makes your life hell. Best Friends will never do that to their friends. So don't consider this person as a best friend or just a friend. Make new friends who will be better than the person who you thought your best friend. Stay away from her/ him; Ignore her/him; Don't waste your precious time thinking or worrying about her / him.
2006-08-25 09:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by mswathi1025 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way mate, I had a great friend at my last school. Thought he was a nice guy e.tc then he turned Mr cool and turned on me, If the cow is making your life a living hell, tell someone, doesn't have to be aan adult but another friend and try and sort it out from there or go tell someone important and make their life hell!!!
2006-08-25 09:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by hdgmarshall 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just start making new friends, I know it's hard but you can do it. As soon as you start having some new relationships you will wonder what you ever saw in her in the first place and most importantly, you will realize she wasn't really your friend at all. Move on, ok?
2006-08-25 09:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by deedleydee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make new friends she obviously is not worth your time and enegy as a friend or not and just do your best to ignore her childish behaviour
2006-08-25 09:54:57 · answer #10 · answered by tweetypie88888 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋