I am befriend with her past 2yrs and before 4 mths found that i am in love with her. But i think she is not thinking that way she is just my best friend from her own point of view. My life is going nowhere i m engrossed in emotions so that i have to resign from my job due to lack of concentration. If i propose her major chances are that she will turn down my proposal. What to do pl. advise if anyone have suggestions. Without her Life is just miserable yaar....!
2006-08-25 02:35:19 · 9 answers · asked by sami s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Get yourself together before you try to bring her into the equation. You have to show her that if you guys were to get really serious that you can handle any situation that is given to you. Also, don't let her see that you are having this sort of break-downish problem. If you handle it like the man you are, she will be more respective and amirable of you.
2006-08-25 02:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by K G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you and is this your first love? How do you know what she is thinking and thinking negative? Has she told you. Many times women will act like they are not interested when in fact they are because of pride and fear of rejection. You must ask her and risk rejection. This is what a life worth living is all about. Taking risks. Sometimes you will fail and sometimes you will win. If she rejects you it might be for a million reasons none of which can be construed by you that you are not good enough. For every girl that will reject you in life there are five more that would accept you but not if you don't take the risk and act.
2006-08-25 02:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is go for it. Life is to short to sit around and debate so long on what you want to do. You may never know what might come out of all this if you don't try, but no matter what the answer may be you keep your head up and keep living.
2006-08-25 02:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by bigtosh3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coach her you like with the help of looking deeply into her eyes - enable her seize you staring lovingly at her. call her interior the middle of the day just to declare you care. deliver her a flower you picked - in basic terms for her. Make dinner (candle easy, comfortable song - the field of candies). take a seat on the brink of her carry her (without meaning you go with intercourse). Take her dancing or to a remarkable "lady flick" - or lease one - Don Juan is a good one - Ghost is yet another so is Steele Magnolias - she will have the capacity to cry and you will enable her and wipe away her tears and tell her you would be there for her while she desires you. Little notes or poems in her lunch bag - little songs you hear that remind you of her - i wish that helps - good success
2016-12-17 16:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think that she will not accpt ur proposal,propose to her and let her understand ur feelings because from what u are saying i don't think u have propose to her and for that reason she does not know ur intentions. it may even be that she also feeling the same but just that she does not want u to see that she has that feeling towards u because the girls think when she show it towards u u will take her to be a cheap girl.
2006-08-25 02:58:16 · answer #5 · answered by kingebostarry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you really care for her. try talking to her do you think your life is going know where if not then dont worry about it if so try bettering it. that would be crazy to quite your job talk to her and if shes not intersted then go on with your life and find someone else there is always someone else out there. life is what you make of it.your the only one who can make it better
2006-08-25 02:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by pudding_pops2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You quit your job because you love a girl?
Grow up, seek professional help, you sound like a scary stalker.
2006-08-25 02:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
S E X
2006-08-25 02:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
our mother talk her mother 4 marriadge.they will accept u.then fu.ck
2006-08-25 09:00:13 · answer #9 · answered by dr b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋