Is it alright for me to take someone special in my life, to be of the soft gender please?

Question

See, i am very serious here, i am in my fifty's but keep the zest of the 30-35, i have a just going college son and we both are alone always almost with my son's mom away for work. Almost, natural, we also travelled over much of the throwns of life giving a smile to our near ones, while the thrown were so painful in our hearts.

Is here, somone so special, who like us, and share with us, to be a special such creation, that can bring me and my son happiness, spent sometime with us, feel us how we are, are we that special lots, never met, if all goes well, to have share a meal, together, that be cooked inside, or not go out, all these things are goneby for us.

This is very serious, and only someone of real heart only answer this while if they like to give a contact, and if allowable, to get back.

Answer 1

We all deserve to be happy. But I am not sure exactly what you are asking. Are you asking is it Ok to find love outside your marriage, but still stay married? You also talk about your son, do you want to find a lady who will love you both? If that is so, then your son obviously knows your intentions. He must know you are unhappy, and would welcome another woman into both your lives. I am in my 50s too, and still have a zest for life...I need what you need, but I know if I was married....I would get out of my marriage first before I persued another woman.....and thats the part I am not too sure about with your question....do you want to leave your wife? If that was clear, then I am sure my answer would be clearer.

Answer 2

Aww that's bittersweet but you never know you might find that someone special that would bring both you and your son happiness. It also sounds like you're a bit of a loner who just needs that femine touch. i wish you find what you're looking for so you dont' have pain in your hearts. tell your son congratualtions for attending college!