I lone to have sex with another man thats not my husband. Once he use to talk to me over the phone but now he seem to not have anything to do with me. For a year we have been talking but nothing has happen other than a kiss on the face or a feel but no sex. I feel I'm ready to make love to him now but he is not interested.
2006-08-25 02:22:47 · 22 answers · asked by NEVER 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get over it.
Why risk your family and marriage for a cheap fling with a guy who doesn't love you anyway?
2006-08-25 02:25:03 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand completely your feelings. It has always been my ideal situation that if I was going to have an affair it would be with another married person. That way it would be all about the sex. No strings, no jealousy, no commitment, no disease, and no chance at blackmail or any other things that can occur for having an affair.
As far as his interest, perhaps something changed in his relationship that stopped him from looking. Be patient, do not go after this very strongly, if it occurs it occurs. But if you force the issue, there is a chance that you will expose your feelings not only to your spouse but to his as well. The sex is fun, but it is not worth destroying both families. You must be very slow and very discreet.
2006-08-25 02:30:28 · answer #2 · answered by Just Another Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for him, it is unusual that a man loves his wife enough that he will turn down sex with another woman. have you even thought about what you will be doing to his wife and your husband and if there are any kids involved. whether or not you think you can keep it a secret, trust me the truth will come out. think for a minute with your brain and not your libido. if you want to have sex with another man divorce your husband and get all you want. only an insecure woman would even consider doing this.
2006-08-25 03:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by melinda w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dear its good for you that he is not interested.... Woman you are married whats wrong with u... think a min what would u do if u found out that ur man is doing the same with another woman.. God i cant understand how do u think woman ...i feel sorry about u
2006-08-25 02:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by Clark794 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wonder how u'd feel if your husband was wanting to get with another woman.You've already been playing with fire.If you do it now it'll only get worse. Reinvent your sex life with your husband and do things you normally wouldn't do. Whatever it takes to keep your marriage 2gether
2006-08-25 04:07:05 · answer #5 · answered by astamp101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the sign Lady .... Eventually It's not supposto happen!!! ..... Trust me u dont want to go there cuz after the only one feeling bad will be u..... u'll feel used, and unwanted eventually u'll end up treating u'r husband bad because of it!!! Thats Not God Sent, U'r husband IS!!!
2006-08-25 02:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really want to make a mistake by sleeping with another man? even if you are both married it doesnt make it right, if you do do it, use protection and lie real good and never never never admit it, only if you get caught, dont fall for the typical lies either, like just the head and im "wearing" a condom
2006-08-25 02:27:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you waiting on? Join the adult friend finders and locate what your looking for. If you want to get your husband involved let him help you pick your sex partner. Good luck.
2006-08-25 02:31:33 · answer #8 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with your husband and just masterbate over it. Then try and make your husband the #1 priority in your life, You did marry him and you would expect the same of him.
2006-08-25 03:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by downsouthcpl2932 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sometimes when it comes down to getting physical, guilt or cold feet come into play. He may have thought that's what he wanted, but when it came down to it, he decided to back out. I'm guessing he's decided to keep his life as it is.
2006-08-25 02:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋